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Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:49 pm to TheCaterpillar
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But if you were cool with it and she was cool with it and you both agreed you love each other unconditionally regardless of partner, it becomes a different story.
but thats the thing, I'm not cool with it. And if I was, what would be the point of marriage? You are trying to put a square peg in the proverbial round hole (pardon the pun).
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:52 pm to tigerinthebueche
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completely contradicting yourself.
I'm saying that I wasn't raised to be ok with it, but someone else might be. That was my point.
Monogamy might not be the "normal" for someone else.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:53 pm to tigerinthebueche
well we are seeing more and more couples not get married. Marriage is slowly not becoming something that is expected for a woman to do.
my thing is dont get married if you want to step out on your partner. just get a civil union
my thing is dont get married if you want to step out on your partner. just get a civil union
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:54 pm to tigerinthebueche
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no offense, but what a load of immature rationalizing shite.
None taken. I am just saying others might not be the same as you. I think people do shitty things to people they love allllll the fricking time and regret it for the rest of their life.
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I also think if we were raised to be accepting of sleeping around, we wouldn’t think twice about it.
more of the same
This was a different thought than my first. If you grew up in a household with several moms and dads, that would be normal to you. If you grew with swinger parents and they taught you "swinging is the right way to be" you'd be pretty cool with it.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:55 pm to TheCaterpillar
I think it's asurob1 who is interesting in these threads -- he has an open marriage and basically calls guys out for being insecure pussies if they can't deal with their wife swinging.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:55 pm to RedRifle
:wiki:
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:55 pm to tke857
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well we are seeing more and more couples not get married. Marriage is slowly not becoming something that is expected for a woman to do.
Although in fairness there are a lot more reasons other than "variety" that are contributing to this. Although I'm finding this emphasis on "variety" being placed by the media to be interesting to say the least.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:55 pm to OneMoreTime
:rocket:
Gonna need your help in a minute
Gonna need your help in a minute
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:56 pm to tke857
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my thing is dont get married if you want to step out on your partner. just get a civil union
I am married and it wasn't done in a church or by someone ordained by any church.
Would you not call me married?
(sorry this is a marriage definition hijack
) 
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:57 pm to Bunk Moreland
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I think it's asurob1 who is interesting in these threads -- he has an open marriage and basically calls guys out for being insecure pussies if they can't deal with their wife swinging.
I'd love to pick that guys brain
Thats what we need in here. Someone who actually HAS that point of view from the other side so I can shutup
Posted on 5/27/15 at 3:57 pm to tke857
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my thing is dont get married if you want to step out on your partner. just get a civil union
There's a whole other level of legal rights and protections associated with marriage. And hardly any of it has anything to do with sexual relationships.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:02 pm to TheCaterpillar
He's a liberal idiot who likes watching his wife take a pounding from other guys...not exactly a role model or someone you want to take tips from.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:04 pm to The Pirate King
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He's a liberal idiot who likes watching his wife take a pounding from other guys...not exactly a role model or someone you want to take tips from.
Sounds like he'd be interesting in this thread though.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:04 pm to TheCaterpillar
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If you grew up in a household with several moms and dads, that would be normal to you. If you grew with swinger parents and they taught you "swinging is the right way to be" you'd be pretty cool with it.
but don't you think those who have step parents innately know they are supposed to faithful to one person only when married? As for swingers, what would be the point of marriage if you wanted to be a swinger?
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:05 pm to tigerinthebueche
shrug...
....this is nothing new...just a bit more commercial is all.
....this is nothing new...just a bit more commercial is all.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:06 pm to The Pirate King
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who likes watching his wife take a pounding from other guys
Yeah, it's definitely a mental disorder.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:06 pm to TheCaterpillar
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I am married and it wasn't done in a church or by someone ordained by any church.
Would you not call me married?
no you are most definitely married. Dont believe it? Step out on your wife and see what the court says.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:07 pm to asurob1
You like watching your wife get railed?
Posted on 5/27/15 at 4:07 pm to tigerinthebueche
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but don't you think those who have step parents innately know they are supposed to faithful to one person only when married? As for swingers, what would be the point of marriage if you wanted to be a swinger?
Marriage isn't just about sex. Its about other stuff too such as having someone to share your life with on a daily basis. The sex thing for swingers is just to satisfy innate urges in a controlled atmosphere.
I'm not sure how "innate" monogamy truly is. I think everyone is different in this sense.
ETA:
Nature v. Nurture comes into play IMO. I definitely want to frick Adrianna Lima. No doubt about that. But I know I can't or won't because I am married. But damn do I want to
(and obviously couldn't because shes Adrianna Lima but this is a hypothetical)
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 4:11 pm
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