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How much to spend on engagement ring?
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:32 am
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:32 am
Here is my problem, I don't like to spend money on a rock that cost $1.75 to dig out the ground. Luckily I met a woman have similar values and does not want me spending $8-10K on a ring, but I feel like she would be a tad disappointed if I didn't.
She has talked about getting just a band and that's all we need. We both have close to 6 figures in student debt after grad school. She rather us save money towards a house.
Realistically, I can probably source a decent ring. I know 3 jewelers through both families, but not close enough to either to get a kin folk deal.
What's the expectation for two people late 20s, early 30s with wedding rings?
She has talked about getting just a band and that's all we need. We both have close to 6 figures in student debt after grad school. She rather us save money towards a house.
Realistically, I can probably source a decent ring. I know 3 jewelers through both families, but not close enough to either to get a kin folk deal.
What's the expectation for two people late 20s, early 30s with wedding rings?
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:33 am to DupontsCircle
3 x a months salary is standard
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:33 am to DupontsCircle
Pay what you can afford, F what anyone else says.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:33 am to The Torch
That'd be a $30,000 ring. Not happening.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:33 am to DupontsCircle
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Luckily I met a woman have similar values and does not want me spending $8-10K on a ring
Lol, no you didn't.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:34 am to DupontsCircle
Buy a nice Zirconia stone. Only you two need to know.
Save for the house and pay off student loans.
Save for the house and pay off student loans.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:34 am to DupontsCircle
She doesn't want you to spend a lot on a ring. Don't. If you don't believe her, then don't marry the liar that you don't trust. If you do spend a lot, your marriage is already not starting out right since you're doing something that both of you know is foolish.
Talk to her. Decide together. Do what you decide together.
Talk to her. Decide together. Do what you decide together.
This post was edited on 5/6/17 at 9:35 am
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:34 am to DupontsCircle
You can find a decent ring for $5k
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:34 am to DupontsCircle
Ask her what she wants you to spend
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:35 am to DupontsCircle
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That'd be a $30,000 ring. Not happening.
You accidentally added a 0
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:35 am to hashtag
Thanks. That's solid real advice.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:36 am to DupontsCircle
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woman have similar values and does not want me spending $8-10K on a ring, but I feel like she would be a tad disappointed if I didn't.
Starting off with lies already.
just stay single.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:36 am to DupontsCircle
Get her an engagement tattoo on her ring finger
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:36 am to DupontsCircle
Get a CZ and put it in a Tiffiney's box. Save the rest of the money to spend on whores for when your old lady immediately stops giving you BJs.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:37 am to DupontsCircle
I won one in a claw machine. It was one of these expensive gifts one too...
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:37 am to The Torch
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3 x a months salary is standard
For the ring industry.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:38 am to DupontsCircle
Spend what you can afford.
Posted on 5/6/17 at 9:39 am to DupontsCircle
10K will buy a very nice ring, and it seems you can afford that amount.
But CaptainsWafer gave the best advice. Don't get hung up on what people tell you what you should spend. Talk to your wife, and if she is truly not asking you to break the bank, then that's all that matters.
But CaptainsWafer gave the best advice. Don't get hung up on what people tell you what you should spend. Talk to your wife, and if she is truly not asking you to break the bank, then that's all that matters.
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