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How many of yall have gotten mad/sad over being excluded from a wedding party
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:11 pm
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:11 pm
theoretically, i feel like i wouldnt get upset, but after some thinking, there are a few buddies that I would be pretty pissed about if they wouldnt ask me to be a groomsman. none of my friends have gotten married yet
I know a girl whose brother was getting married and the bride asked the groom's other 2 sisters to be bridesmaids.
she was so upset.
how many of yall have been spurned, and how much mad/butthurt did it inflict?
I know a girl whose brother was getting married and the bride asked the groom's other 2 sisters to be bridesmaids.
she was so upset. how many of yall have been spurned, and how much mad/butthurt did it inflict?
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Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:13 pm to Carson123987
Mad that someone didn't make me rent a penguin suit?
Nah, I wouldn't be mad.
Nah, I wouldn't be mad.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:13 pm to Carson123987
I consider it a blessing. But in your scenario, it's hard to view it as anything but a snub.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:14 pm to Carson123987
Not I....but then again, I'm not a chick.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:14 pm to Carson123987
I don't think I would ever get mad at that...
My wife had one of her friends, who she asked to be a bridesmaid, not even come to our wedding because she asked someone else to be her maid of honor
it was one of her best friends growing...didn't even show up
My wife had one of her friends, who she asked to be a bridesmaid, not even come to our wedding because she asked someone else to be her maid of honor
it was one of her best friends growing...didn't even show up
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:15 pm to Carson123987
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I know a girl whose brother was getting married and the bride asked the groom's other 2 sisters to be bridesmaids.
That is really fricked up. Even if she is good friends with the 2 sisters and not the girl you know, just add one more spot.
The only thing close for me was when I wasn't picked to be best man. I was upset for about 5 minutes, then quickly forgot about it.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:16 pm to Carson123987
My wife was pretty pissed when her sister asked someone else to be the maid of honor. But she got over it.
Me I don't get upset over anything anyone does for their wedding. There are just too many god damned rules and too much etiquette involved, and everyone's got to make their own choice. There are a few people (basically family members) that I'd be upset if they straight up didn't invite me, but other than that IDGAF.
Me I don't get upset over anything anyone does for their wedding. There are just too many god damned rules and too much etiquette involved, and everyone's got to make their own choice. There are a few people (basically family members) that I'd be upset if they straight up didn't invite me, but other than that IDGAF.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:16 pm to Carson123987
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I know a girl whose brother was getting married and the bride asked the groom's other 2 sisters to be bridesmaids.
Normally I wouldn't care, but in this situation it would definitely hurt my feelings a bit. Especially if they are all close in age.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:16 pm to Carson123987
I wouldn't be upset. I get to save money by not being in the wedding party.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:16 pm to Carson123987
Excluded? No.
Agitated to be included, yes.
Agitated to be included, yes.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:16 pm to Salmon
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My wife had one of her friends, who she asked to be a bridesmaid, not even come to our wedding because she asked someone else to be her maid of honor
wow
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:16 pm to Carson123987
Tux rental, standing around for pictures, having to commit to other functions... no thanks.
Now the bachelor party, however.
Now the bachelor party, however.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:19 pm to Carson123987
lot's of "wouldn't care," as I thought. idk, i just feel like if I wasn't asked by the buddies that I've been friends with from elementary through college, I'd be kinda pissed
definitely a more woman-esque thing, though
definitely a more woman-esque thing, though
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:24 pm to 82fumanchu
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Tux rental, standing around for pictures, having to commit to other functions... no thanks. Now the bachelor party, however.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:26 pm to Carson123987
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idk, i just feel like if I wasn't asked by the buddies that I've been friends with from elementary through college, I'd be kinda pissed
guess it just depends
if one of my best friends asked all our of our other friends and left me out, then yeah, I'd be like "WTF?"
I don't know if I would be mad/sad, but his wedding gift might be a little cheaper
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:28 pm to Carson123987
i hate weddings, but in that situation i would probably feel offended/left out. Thats kind of shitty.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:28 pm to Carson123987
Not being included in the wedding party doesn't bother me.
I have ended a friendship over not being invited to a wedding. I literally got texted by 7 people asking why I wasn't there, and we were good friends at the time, hanging out once every 2 weeks or so and definitely in the same group friend wise.
I have ended a friendship over not being invited to a wedding. I literally got texted by 7 people asking why I wasn't there, and we were good friends at the time, hanging out once every 2 weeks or so and definitely in the same group friend wise.
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:30 pm to GeauxColonels
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.but then again, I'm not a chick.
I'm a chick and this wouldn't really bug me. I wasn't in or invited to a close friend's wedding because we were having a huge falling out at the time(we've long since gotten over it and she was at my wedding).
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:32 pm to Carson123987
you shouldn't be mad, you're saving money
Posted on 6/3/15 at 2:36 pm to Carson123987
The only time it has ever bothered me was for one of my cousins. He is two months older than me, so we were/are obviously very close. We grew up together, roomed together in college, etc. He asked me to be an usher in his wedding, and it pissed me off because that's basically all the negative aspects of being in a wedding (tux, rehearsal, pics, etc) without the honor of being a groomsman.
I still said yes and did it because I understood it's not about me, but I did have a WTF moment. He was still a groomsman in my wedding, even though it was after his.
I still said yes and did it because I understood it's not about me, but I did have a WTF moment. He was still a groomsman in my wedding, even though it was after his.
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