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How many of yall have boundaries set with significant other?
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:05 am
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:05 am
This might be a little to real for some. I have had two people at work this year who have started the divorce process. Not trying to get doctor Phil in here, but millinials(not a jab at millinials, just seems to be at that stage for millinials and not other generations) have to understand that creating boundaries is needed in a marriage. You must understand and articulate what is acceptable and unacceptable behavior in your marriage. Set rails up so to speak, in finances of course, but also what is acceptable on social media and at work.
Not to sound like a puss, but it breaks my heart to see people I care about going through a divorce because communication was lacking. Had to get this off my chest in an anonymous place.
Not to sound like a puss, but it breaks my heart to see people I care about going through a divorce because communication was lacking. Had to get this off my chest in an anonymous place.
This post was edited on 2/21/17 at 9:12 am
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Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:06 am to iamAG
Yes.
No guy friends
No guy friends
This post was edited on 2/21/17 at 9:07 am
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:07 am to iamAG
Did you make this thread just to try to get a millinial jab?
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:07 am to iamAG
For my wife it's don't come home when I'm cheating on her
This post was edited on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:07 am to iamAG
I don't allow my wife to blow other guys.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am to iamAG
You are right. So many divorces you see are preventable. Short of a spouse cheating, I think divorce is the most chickenshit thing in the world.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am to iamAG
quote:putting away cell phones at dinner and during family time is a start
How many of yall have boundaries set with significant other?
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am to iamAG
quote:
and at work
"Stop telling your employees how hung I am"
ETA: The wife doesn't do this but I still tell her this about twice a week
She has some good looking employees
This post was edited on 2/21/17 at 9:11 am
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am to TH03
quote:
I don't allow my wife to blow other guys.
yep, it goes both ways too. i'm not allowed to blow them either.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am to iamAG
Pics of the new single moms out galavanting with their newly found fun friends?
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:08 am to iamAG
We do. I can't PIIHB. Boundary set.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:10 am to Ed Osteen
No I am a millinial myself. Most non millinials seem to be past the point of divorce for the issues I listed. They still divorce but not because of communication.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:10 am to Chad504boy
It's a partnership.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:11 am to iamAG
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but millinials have to understand that creating boundaries is needed in a marriage.
Divorce skyrocketed under Boomers
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:12 am to NIH
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Divorce skyrocketed under Boomers
And decreased quite a bit with millenials.
Op just wanted to sound like he knew something
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:15 am to iamAG
In the end it really is up to the type of person he/she is. If they have morals, loyalty, and honesty.
Boundaries with the opposite sex should be a no brainer. If your partner has any kind of issue with that then it's probably a big sign to walk away.
Boundaries with the opposite sex should be a no brainer. If your partner has any kind of issue with that then it's probably a big sign to walk away.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:16 am to iamAG
quote:
How many of yall have boundaries set with significant other? by iamAG
with posters TOO
quote:
This might be a little to real for some.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:18 am to mpar98
Your in the wrong thread.
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:18 am to NIH
quote:
but millinials have to understand that creating boundaries is needed in a marriage.
Divorce skyrocketed under Boomers
Some things in life are so predictable.
1. Someone gives Millineals constructive criticism.
2. Millineal refuses to listen and learn and instead brings up Boomers.
Every
Single
Time
Posted on 2/21/17 at 9:19 am to iamAG
Nope. No set boundaries. Just common sense.
Don't do something you wouldn't want the other person to do.
Boundaries aren't some magical force to keep people in line. If someone wants to cheat, they're going to cheat. I don't keep tabs on her and she can do whatever she wants. Same with me. I'm not going to sit around and wonder what she's doing. I trust her. And If I ever don't trust her, I'll call the whole thing off and try to frick her friends.
We're not planning to have kids so that makes it easier.
Don't do something you wouldn't want the other person to do.
Boundaries aren't some magical force to keep people in line. If someone wants to cheat, they're going to cheat. I don't keep tabs on her and she can do whatever she wants. Same with me. I'm not going to sit around and wonder what she's doing. I trust her. And If I ever don't trust her, I'll call the whole thing off and try to frick her friends.
We're not planning to have kids so that makes it easier.
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