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re: How long to wait to ask out chick who had boyfriend die?

Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:37 pm to
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
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Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:37 pm to
Her old man a maritime pilot?
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
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Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:38 pm to
No that would bump her to OT9
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15377 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:39 pm to
Ask her if she needs anything. Find out what she likes (Starbucks) that sort of thing. And drop one off "on the way by".

Be seen, but don't overdo it right away.
Posted by epbart
new york city
Member since Mar 2005
2926 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:39 pm to
quote:

Don't ask her out. Just ask her to go for a walk.


Indirect is not a bad tack. Something like, "Hey, I'm going to ___ tomorrow. Care to join me?" No pressure that way; just an invitation to meet up and do something you may have been planning to do anyway.
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15312 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:40 pm to
Pretty disrespectful imho
This post was edited on 9/6/16 at 4:41 pm
Posted by Cosmo
glassman's guest house
Member since Oct 2003
120248 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:41 pm to
How so? Im supposed to leave her single and lonely forever?
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
155532 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:41 pm to
Mais i say go for it me
Posted by tigersownall
Thibodaux
Member since Sep 2011
15312 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:44 pm to
Did you know this baw? How did he die? How long did they date? If it was a considerable amount of time she is a trashy bitch if she jumps in the sack with you this week.
Posted by NoShow
Member since Feb 2013
2339 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:45 pm to
"I'm there for you."
Posted by flyingtexastiger
Southlake, TX
Member since Oct 2005
1637 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:46 pm to
Exactly how much did you have to do with the fellow's demise??
Posted by llfshoals
Member since Nov 2010
15377 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:46 pm to
No, but it's a fine line to walk. Push too hard she bolts, too much distance she's going to find someone else.

Hence the be seen, but not pushy right away. After a time or 3 of "do you need anything" you'll get a signal to proceed or back off.

So pay attention.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35085 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:47 pm to
Bring her a casserole and let one thing lead to another.
Posted by undrafted
DHA
Member since Oct 2009
1000 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:54 pm to
If they dated for less than 8 months its free game. 8 months to 2 years give it 2-4 weeks. 2+ years you need to move in immediately to be the shoulder to cry on.

I actually watched some show years ago about the amount of marriages 9/11 ruined because guys went to "care" for the widowed spouses of their deceased friends.
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66924 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:54 pm to
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OT 8
Sweet girl. Great family


If you are going out with her to "comfort her" because of the death, you can act within a few days. If you are moving in on the poon too early, it might come across creepy. It will take a level of finesse in your game.
Posted by RabidTiger
Member since Nov 2009
3127 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:56 pm to
quote:

I actually watched some show years ago about the amount of marriages 9/11 ruined because guys went to "care" for the widowed spouses of their deceased friends.


Well that's depressing as frick.
Posted by airfernando
Member since Oct 2015
15248 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 4:57 pm to
I would think a lot depends on how long they were together.
Posted by AZTarheeel
Member since Feb 2015
3702 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 5:01 pm to
Too late, she was already banging another dude before the bf passed.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98178 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 5:02 pm to
The ultimate Jody move.
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
32407 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 5:14 pm to
None of this happened, so doesn't matter.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113940 posts
Posted on 9/6/16 at 5:15 pm to
After my dad passed away, my mom was dating her now husband less than a month after, probably closer to two weeks after. A few weeks after they started dating dude told my mom he didn't appreciate me being disrespectful because I didn't say hello to him every time he came over. I told her to tell him if he feels that way then don't come over.. That was the beginning of a lot of problems.
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