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Heard a question on a radio talk show: WWtOTD?

Posted on 1/26/16 at 11:58 pm
Posted by Ingeniero
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2013
18287 posts
Posted on 1/26/16 at 11:58 pm
Was listening to 104.1 while driving and there's apparently a relationship talk show in between songs at night. Anyway, a woman called in with this question:

She dates online and has accounts on a few different sites and apps. On one of the sites she found her friend's husband. On his profile it says he's going through a divorce and looking for "fun girls." She said the friend and the husband aren't actually going through a divorce, and that they're actually renewing their vows this year and have 3 kids. She asked the hosts of the show if they would tell the friend about it if in her position.
The female host said she'd confront the husband about it first, the male host said he wouldn't say anything to anyone. What would you do?

Tl;dr woman dates online, finds her friend's husband is looking for hookups
Posted by East Coast Band
Member since Nov 2010
62801 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:00 am to
I bet the caller was/is married, too.
Posted by Peazey
Metry
Member since Apr 2012
25418 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:03 am to
I would tell the friend. If it actually is a friend and not just an acquaintance. Otherwise I would probably mind my own business and not gossip about it to the whole city like it seems this chick is doing.
This post was edited on 1/27/16 at 12:04 am
Posted by SlowEasyConfident
Member since Nov 2015
6650 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:05 am to
quote:

She dates online and has accounts on a few different sites and apps.


Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
7137 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:06 am to
quote:

WWtOTD


PIIHB

Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98190 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:08 am to
quote:

wouldn't say anything to anyone.
Posted by McCaigBro69
TigerDroppings Premium Member
Member since Oct 2014
45086 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:09 am to
If it was legit a close friend then I'm telling.

If I just knew the person and wasn't close then itms better to not even get involved.
Posted by stuntman
Florida
Member since Jan 2013
9105 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:13 am to
If it's a close friend, she should have the wife come over and "help choose" a guy online, then "accidentally" run across her husband's profile.

This post was edited on 1/27/16 at 12:14 am
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12302 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:15 am to
Depends on which friend it is. If it was Craig's wife? I'd definitely tell him. But Brian's wife? I'd bang her and not say a word to him. Oh man I'd bang the shite out of Brian's wife
Posted by auggie
Opelika, Alabama
Member since Aug 2013
27995 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 12:23 am to
Meddling in a close friend's relationship will backfire 95% of the time,and you will somehow come out looking like the bad guy.

If It was a close friend of mine, or a brother, I would try to find a way to clue him in,without him knowing that I knew anything about it.
Posted by gingerkittie
Member since Aug 2013
2675 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 2:29 am to
I had a somewhat similar situation and I dealt with it by contacting the potential cheater and asking them if they had really thought about the devastating consequences and how it would affect their children and family. I asked them to really think it over and to realize that their actions would greatly affect many people in their life.

They wrote me back and thanked me for not outting them and for handling it like I did and decided that cheating was not worth it. A few months later their spouse was diagnosed with cancer and they realized how much their spouse and the life they had together really meant to them.

Years later they are still together, stronger than ever and so thankful that they did not throw their life away by cheating.
Posted by Martini
Near Athens
Member since Mar 2005
48853 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 6:18 am to
Mail an anonymous postcard.

frick a cheater.
Posted by Gaston
Dirty Coast
Member since Aug 2008
39025 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 6:34 am to
She should just respond to his profile 'as a fun girl'...trade pics, then be like wait I know you...never say a thing after that. That would scare the shite out if me if I was him. He'll either kill her or make up some wild arse excuse why he was trying to pick up his wife's best friend.
This post was edited on 1/27/16 at 6:35 am
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21517 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 7:11 am to
quote:

The female host said she'd confront the husband about it first, the male host said he wouldn't say anything to anyone. What would you do?


What would I do? Gonna need pics of the wife, of course.
Posted by Yewkindewit
Near Birmingham, Alabama
Member since Apr 2012
20042 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 7:13 am to
Stay out of it despite the urge to do it. That couple has issues and they will be exposed soon enough. He just wants some noncommittal side pussy/knobbers.... In the interim.
Posted by USAF Hart
My House
Member since Jun 2011
10273 posts
Posted on 1/27/16 at 7:16 am to
If I was single and had friends that were married, and I found one of the SO's on a dating site playing single I would absolutely bring it up. If I am married and on a dating site, I'm not saying shite
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