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re: Friend confided in me that he's having an affair (updates in OP)

Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:27 am to
Posted by eScott
Member since Oct 2008
11376 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:27 am to
quote:

I'm done being a dick,


Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:28 am to
I know. Just giving you a hard time.
Posted by MrAndroid
South of Enterprise
Member since Feb 2011
1489 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:29 am to
quote:

What would you do? Advise him to stop? Or just file that info away and play the charade?


Not my Monkeys, Not My Circus.

Posted by WoWyHi
Member since Jul 2009
23339 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:29 am to
quote:

eScott


I LOVE that gif.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103231 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:31 am to
In college we had some friends who were married. Awesome couple from cali. I ended up working at the same place as the wife and noticed she was very friendly with a group of young 18 year old girls and the guys she hung out with...they would go out all the time after work late at night mostly without the husband.

I eventually came to know that she cheated on him with one of the dudes at least once and possibly more. I was torn for a long time as to what to do because the guy was being made a fool of. I ended up telling him my suspicions one night when he brought it up. He basically shut me off as a friend and went in denial. They ended up divorced 18 months later when he learned first hand what she was doing.
Posted by BallCoachinFool
Member since Dec 2012
2133 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:31 am to
Tell him to video the affair. Upload to Internet with title "OT baller bangs betas wife"
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67599 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:31 am to
quote:

Walt that far to personal. Sorry my friend.


that is a yes walt
Posted by lsuhunt555
Teakwood Village Breh
Member since Nov 2008
38418 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:31 am to
quote:

What happened to the bro code?


Bro code existed when we were 18 and had girlfriends. If you marry someone and have a kid with them, bro code goes out the window. Take responsibility for your shitty decisions and dont involve me.
Posted by jmcs68
Member since Sep 2012
40401 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:31 am to
quote:

Not my Monkeys, Not My Circus



I'm going to so use this today.
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
17996 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:33 am to
OP, you need to try and be a little forward thinking for him...

As the trusted friend, you need to paint out all scenarios of how this shite could go badly quick.

Did you ever think about if the lady he's cheating with, if her husband finds out first? He might be able to discover identity of the cheater and confront your friend, or tell friend's wife if given the chance.

Or how about if the chick he is cheating with goes bat shite crazy and starts dumping garbage in your buddy's lawn or keying his car if he tries to break it off?

Or if another mutual friend happens to see him publicly with his mistress...

These are the scenarios he needs to know about so he can fully realize just how bad he has fricked up. He needs to realize that he doesn't control the situation, and it only takes one second of an instance for somebody else to completely blow his cover and ruin his life.

It's like being jailed and looking for the escape, but all exits are guarded with explosives.
Posted by GrammarKnotsi
Member since Feb 2013
9400 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:35 am to
quote:

Did he confide in you because you had been in a similar situation...
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47545 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:36 am to
quote:

tell him not to get caught


NOR EVER EVER EVER confess in some fricked fleeting moment of compassion for his no-pussy-givin wife.

He will regret that confession for rest of his life.
FACTUAL
Posted by WoWyHi
Member since Jul 2009
23339 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:36 am to
quote:

Bro code existed when we were 18 and had girlfriends. If you marry someone and have a kid with them, bro code goes out the window. Take responsibility for your shitty decisions and dont involve me.


Another BINGO. Dare I say that I'm proud of some of the OT responses I'm seeing? Bro code is for immature teenagers even though age doesn't define maturity either.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
97745 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:37 am to
quote:

Did you ever think about if the lady he's cheating with, if her husband finds out first? He might be able to discover identity of the cheater and confront your friend, or tell friend's wife if given the chance.


Or shoots him in the face
Posted by TXGunslinger10
Houston, TX
Member since Jun 2011
17996 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:38 am to
Well "confronting" could be interpreted many ways...from an honest talk, to a bullet in the forehead.
Posted by Death Before Disco
Member since Dec 2009
6210 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:39 am to
Considering the updated info, the dude is going to get busted, his wife seems depressed, and he's gonna get raped by the divorce attorney.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81261 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:39 am to
quote:

Considering the updated info, the dude is going to get busted, his wife seems depressed, and he's gonna get raped by the divorce attorney.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
67599 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:40 am to
quote:

He just enjoys having sex with her


quote:

He knows it's wrong and that he shouldn't be doing this needs to stop but he's planning to stretch it out for as long as possible


doesn't sound like he feels any shame or guilt about it
Posted by HeadedToTheWoods
Sportsman's Paradise
Member since Dec 2013
1039 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:40 am to
I hope your cheating friend breaks a leg or such over the weekend. And he'd damn well deserve that and more. POS he is
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112376 posts
Posted on 8/1/14 at 9:41 am to
If this is true

quote:

2) He believes that after the baby his wife just shut everything down. She's a stay at home mom and their kid is over a year old but she doesn't cook, doesn't go to the gym is antisocial etc. now these are the excuses of a cheater so take with a grain of salt but she may have had some depression issues after the baby.


Than this is not

quote:

1) He is not in love with this new woman. He just enjoys having sex with her and because they are in the same industry they have similar things to talk about. He won't leave his wife.


And finally

quote:

possible. And the other woman doesn't have kids.


She will soon

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