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re: Do you know a virgin over the age of 30?

Posted on 11/28/15 at 1:00 pm to
Posted by bayou choupique
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 1:00 pm to
I know a girl that grew up with my wife that is at least 30 and claims to be a virgin. She comes from a very well respected family and claims she is saving herself for marriage. If it is true, I respect that.
Posted by Flair Chops
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 2:41 pm to
40 year old cousin. He has some disabilities and is extremely religious.
Posted by chinhoyang
Member since Jun 2011
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 2:46 pm to
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Unless her mom is the mom from "Carrie".


I first read that as "unless her mom is the mom from "Carnie"
Posted by Jcorye1
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 3:07 pm to
If they are, it's none of my business. If they told me, I wouldn't care.

Individuals all mature, grow, and shape themselves in their own way. When it's something that does not affect me in the slightest, like this, I couldn't give two shits.
Posted by danilo
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 3:09 pm to
My cousin should have remained a virgin. He got the HIV. Gay dude + drug problem = HIV
Posted by LoveThatMoney
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 3:44 pm to
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know a girl that grew up with my wife that is at least 30 and claims to be a virgin. She comes from a very well respected family and claims she is saving herself for marriage. If it is true, I respect that


The woman I know has never been on a date or kissed a man. She is in the very odd position of being staunchly Muslim, but very successful. There aren't many Muslim men who would be as "devout" as she is, yet be cool with her working 60 hours+ a week. I can see a Muslim who drinks and doesn't take the dogma seriously being cool with her working, but she can't handle a guy who drinks or doesn't eat properly. I think it's an excuse now.
Posted by p0845330
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 4:16 pm to
It's hard to say. The last one I knew that I was sure of, I married and deflowered almost 10 years ago.

No pics. If I posted one, she'd stop feeding me, and I have a figure to maintain.
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 4:19 pm to
I'd rather date a virgin that someone who has fricked everyone that moves. I don't know why this is such a big deal to some people.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 4:20 pm to
I've never really made a habit of asking people about their sexual habits, and it's not something people tend to make public.
Posted by RabidTiger
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 5:17 pm to
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I'd rather date a virgin that someone who has fricked everyone that moves. I don't know why this is such a big deal to some people.


That's all well and good in your teens and twenties, but once you get into thirties and beyond it's a pretty big red flag without some sort of mitigating circumstances.
Posted by SG_Geaux
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 5:32 pm to
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She comes from a very well respected family and claims she is saving herself for marriage. 


There is no way she is not a whore.
Posted by BulldogXero
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:00 pm to
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That's all well and good in your teens and twenties, but once you get into thirties and beyond it's a pretty big red flag without some sort of mitigating circumstances.


Not necessarily. For a lot of people, it could mean that they've never been married and/or haven't been in numerous failed relationships. Maybe they're saving themselves for marriage and spent the first 20-35 years of their life establishing their careers?

Look, I'm not saying that virginity isn't the result of some personality trait that your partner may not find desirable, but it's the trait that is the turn off not virginity in and of itself. Breaking off a relationship with a partner you otherwise enjoy spending time with because of that is extremely dumb. It is also a topic that should not come up, if ever, until much later in the relationship. Hopefully by that time, you've learned enough about his/her eccentricities to where there's nothing that revelation will disclose.
This post was edited on 11/28/15 at 6:02 pm
Posted by Flair Chops
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:22 pm to
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Breaking off a relationship with a partner you otherwise enjoy spending time with because of that is extremely dumb. It is also a topic that should not come up, if ever, until much later in the relationship.
I honestly wouldn't be in a relationship for very long if it wasn't of a physical nature. Yes, there's more to a relationship than fricking, but fricking is a pretty vital cog too
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:24 pm to
If a woman is in her 30s and has never been married there's probably something wrong with her.
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:26 pm to
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If a man is in his 30s and has never been married there's probably something genius with him.
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:26 pm to
A woman in her 30's who's experienced is better than a woman in her 30's who isn't.
Posted by yellowfin
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:30 pm to
I agree. As long as you don't plan to or plan to just not have kids.

You start spitting out kids at 40 and when it's time to be retiring you're paying for college
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:31 pm to
I got fixed on my 18th birthday
Posted by Paddyshack
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 6:44 pm to
And froze the kiddos?
Posted by BulldogXero
Member since Oct 2011
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Posted on 11/28/15 at 7:00 pm to
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If a woman is in her 30s and has never been married there's probably something wrong with her.


Maybe, maybe not, but let whatever is supposedly wrong with her be the determining factor as to whether or not the relationship lasts and not just the admission that she is a virgin.

Breaking it off with a potential mate because "there's probably something wrong with her" because she's a virgin is incredibly dumb, especially if you've never had any problems before.
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