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Do you have issues lending stuff to people?

Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:52 pm
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26446 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:52 pm
One of my biggest pet peeves is lending stuff out, especially to people who I know don't take care of their own stuff.

You either get it back way too late, broken, or don't get it back at all.

Let my neighbor use my lawn mower, their house is the house on the block that has shite everywhere. Of course, one of his kids left a hammer in the grass and he runs over it fricking up the blade. 25 dollars later I had a new blade.

We had one of those smaller bounce houses when our kids were young, wife lent it to friend for a party, we get it back with a big slit down the side, wound up throwing it away.

Now, there's some people I trust lending stuff to, I know they'll get it back to me as soon as they're done with it, bring it back cleaner than you gave it to them, or fixed if they break it.

This post was edited on 3/26/24 at 4:01 pm
Posted by danilo
Member since Nov 2008
20064 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:54 pm to
Nope because I don’t lend anything out
Posted by Huey Lewis
BR
Member since Oct 2013
4644 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:54 pm to
What are you some kind of Indian giver?
Posted by beerJeep
Louisiana
Member since Nov 2016
34943 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:55 pm to
You have friends to lend stuff to?
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26446 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:56 pm to
quote:

You have friends to lend stuff to?




Too many...
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30005 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:56 pm to
I am much like you.
Posted by SidetrackSilvera
Member since Nov 2012
1897 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:56 pm to
Posted by The Mick
Member since Oct 2010
43077 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:56 pm to
My brothers are the worst. I have to physically drive to their house to get it back, whatever it is.
Posted by Ikneauxnuffin
da bayou
Member since Dec 2019
631 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 3:58 pm to
I’ll go do the job for the friend or family member that wants to borrow said item.
You ain’t using my stuff…not happening.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81185 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:01 pm to
Nah. I lend out my formal gowns to friends' daughters pretty often (I'm tiny), and so far they've arrived back timely and undamaged.

I can't really think of anything else I have that someone would even want to borrow.
Posted by Bistineaubengal
Member since Aug 2008
796 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:01 pm to
Just do like the FIL, "It's broke."


His tractor, tiller, generator, buggy, and boat stay "broke."

Posted by facher08
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
4314 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:03 pm to
quote:

You have friends to lend stuff to?



Too many...


Have you confronted them with the issues? If you did and they didn't offer to compensate you, they should no longer be friends.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
5688 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:06 pm to
There's very few people I'm willing to lend stuff to.
Posted by Koach K
Member since Nov 2016
4064 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:07 pm to
My policy is if I borrow your stuff and I mess it up, I buy you equivalent or even better stuff.
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26446 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:09 pm to
quote:

Have you confronted them with the issues? If you did and they didn't offer to compensate you, they should no longer be friends.


No, I usually just won't lend them stuff anymore.
Posted by BabyTac
Austin, TX
Member since Jun 2008
12066 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:22 pm to
Had a neighbor once that would come borrow my ladder every couple weeks. I finally told him, “Maybe it’s time you buy yourself a ladder!” He hasn’t spoken to me since f’ing work from home soy boy.
Posted by Fat and Happy
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2013
16970 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:22 pm to
I don’t at all.

I used to and then i didn’t get stuff back so i quit doing it
Posted by mdomingue
Lafayette, LA
Member since Nov 2010
30005 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:25 pm to
quote:

I’ll go do the job for the friend or family member that wants to borrow said item.
You ain’t using my stuff…not happening.



Yep, my thinking with loaning anything is this, if I loan someone money or an item I need to be willing to not get it back so it can't be enough money or an expensive or special enough item to damage the relationship.

Simply put, I loen money or things I am willing to not get back with no hard feeling. Who you willimpact that valuation.
Posted by F1y0n7h3W4LL
Below I-10
Member since Jul 2019
1463 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:27 pm to
I do and have been burned a couple of times. Once, we loaned our large camping tent out to a neighbor, and he returned it the next week. He moved out of town shortly after.

When we opened it up a few months later, there was a burned hole in it the size of a basketball.

I hate borrowing things myself.
This post was edited on 3/26/24 at 4:29 pm
Posted by OK Roughneck
The Sooner State
Member since Aug 2021
9241 posts
Posted on 3/26/24 at 4:37 pm to
I usually don't mind lending stuff out but people have trouble bringing it back when they are done with using it.
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