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re: Divorced members of the OT

Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:10 pm to
Posted by Henry Jones Jr
Member since Jun 2011
68491 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:10 pm to
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Literally everything you put in your post is wrong

Well.... I admit my ignorance then. But you and I both know that the OT bashes marriage on a semi-regular basis.
Posted by RileyTime
Gulf Breeze, FL
Member since Oct 2008
6928 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:10 pm to
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How strange was it when you found out your ex is dating again? I don't want her back, but part of me feels upset for some reason. It's weird because I've been on dates, so I shouldn't care.

Maybe it's because I'm just worried about who she is gonna bring around my kids.


The only thing that you should worry about are your kids. Tell her that out of courtesy you want to meet him to make sure your kids aren't going to be affected.

I have been divorced, but I have no kids. My wife has a kid from her previous marriage so that was something I had to go through.

If you don't want her back then don't even think about her dating anyone in any other aspect other than worrying about your kids.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
58616 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:12 pm to
Posted by go_tigres
Member since Sep 2013
5153 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:13 pm to
It sucks at first, but it helps if new dude isn't a complete douche to the kids. Hopefully you ex has enough sense not to intro new dude till things get serious. For me it was like the attachment I have towards my kids or my boat or my "fill in the blank". She was mine, plain and simple, regardless of what our status is now...at one point she was mine. My tow vehicle is a 2000 Ford excursion. It has more issues than Lindsay Lohan, but that big b is mine. Eff with it and you die. If I sell it tomorrow, I still have that attachment to a certain degree. That's a knuckle draggin, neanderthal way of thinking - but that's how it is.
Posted by Konkey Dong
Member since Aug 2013
2164 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:19 pm to
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My number 1 joy in heaven is to see how many men treated their wives worse than I did but still got to stay married anyway


Tell granny I said hi, and that Dong misses her very much :(
Posted by MeatSlingingFool
Maurice, LA
Member since Sep 2014
304 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:45 pm to
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Hope she doesn't surprise your arse at the last minute. Friend of mine had a friendly splitting of the assets going then BOOM.


Yeah, I'll admit this has crossed my mind. She did leave me, after all. It's all for the better, though. We were just living together basically as roommates. We never argued or fought. I can't believe we lasted almost 12 years. The papers have been signed and filed now. All we need is the judge's stamp.
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
17000 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:49 pm to
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how did she get custody if she is a drug addict?



We have equal shared custody. That's what happens when you wait until they're sober for a year to file for divorce. I also didn't, at the time, think it was fair to file for full custody since she was sober.
Posted by QuiteTheConundrum
Member since Dec 2013
1140 posts
Posted on 3/26/15 at 12:56 pm to
What detail you leaving out ?

Trying to convince us you are worried about who your kids will be around.

Telling me you divorced her because she was a drug addict and you don't have the kids.
Not buying that
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