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re: Complex Modern Parenting issue with online games
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:02 am to mikelbr
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:02 am to mikelbr
My nephew is a genius, his father an Ivy. Kid is half retarded socially because his mom let's him play mine craft and the kids who are going to get the pussy are playing soccer, beating up younger kids for fun.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:03 am
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:04 am to Tornado Alley
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I'm glad your son is an American. Sounds like he's a smart kid
the refinery is a thing of beauty.
ingenius that he set it up so as it refined it into gas, he automatically used the gas in this enormous quarry he built to keep mining ore.
then when i saw the underground piping he built to keep the system water-cooled, i just did a 'peace out'.
i didnt even know how to respond to that.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:06 am to mikelbr
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It was funny as hell in retrospect b/c the little shite deserved it. She was blocking him and destroying his shite.
You sound like a great parent...Yes, I am not a "fun" parent, I'm not their best friend..My kids have limits on their screen time, and if they ever get disgruntled, the games go off...They also emulate what they see in real life..If your kid see punching someone in the face over a game, he has seen that this is a legit reaction.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:25 am to GrammarKnotsi
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You sound like a great parent...
I am. My kids know to hold daddy's glass beer bottles with two hands when fetching them.
CAD703X - the creativity that game fosters is really amazing.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 11:28 am
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:30 pm to mikelbr
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CAD703X - the creativity that game fosters is really amazing.
i told my son if he doesnt get an A+ in algebra 2 this year i'm selling his computer.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:33 pm to mikelbr
quote:This is actually like real life. They are experiencing frustration over the loss of something they cared for and built all their own. It's symbolic. Just tell your son that you're going to personally beat the stupid out of him for laying a hand on his sister.
Yes. That's a WHOLE nother can of worms. Big sister was on first and thus created the 'world' they all play in. When they are playing solo it's fine. But they've build an elaborate kingdom of sorts in her 'world'. That's where the fighting happens.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 1:34 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:40 pm to The Sad Banana
This may have been suggested, but I am not going to reread the thread.
There are plenty of options to pussify the game.
First, take away admin powers from your oldest and make yourself a character that has that power. Basically the oldest can go into creative mode and screw over everyone.
You can turn off PvP so they can't beat each other up in game as well.
If the Minecraft is through PC/Mac, you have a nuclear option. There are mods you can put on the server to give land ownership. Basically you can section parts of the world to each kid. When you do this, that part of the world becomes theirs and no one can build/destroy/mine except the owner kid.
There are all kinds of mods to basically allow each kid to live in the same world and not be able to frick with each other if you don't want them to do it.
There are plenty of options to pussify the game.
First, take away admin powers from your oldest and make yourself a character that has that power. Basically the oldest can go into creative mode and screw over everyone.
You can turn off PvP so they can't beat each other up in game as well.
If the Minecraft is through PC/Mac, you have a nuclear option. There are mods you can put on the server to give land ownership. Basically you can section parts of the world to each kid. When you do this, that part of the world becomes theirs and no one can build/destroy/mine except the owner kid.
There are all kinds of mods to basically allow each kid to live in the same world and not be able to frick with each other if you don't want them to do it.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 1:42 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:43 pm to GrammarKnotsi
quote:mike has said several times he does the same thing
My kids have limits on their screen time, and if they ever get disgruntled, the games go off.
quote:and the kids saw how their brother was punished after he hit his sister
.If your kid see punching someone in the face over a game, he has seen that this is a legit reaction.
I'm just scratching the surface with this one. THe 4 year old hit the 14 month old the other day which was a first. I'm sure there is more of it to come for awhile.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:43 pm to The Third Leg
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Video games make kids socially inept.
Lulz, not true.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:46 pm to mikelbr
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mikelbr
definitely one of my favorite posters...
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:47 pm to Jcorye1
Prolific gaming in childhood has shown to create social dysfunction and isolation.
Sure, it can promote many good skills, hand/eye, quick decision making, et all, but it needs to be done in moderation.
The behavior described in this OP is absurd.
Sure, it can promote many good skills, hand/eye, quick decision making, et all, but it needs to be done in moderation.
The behavior described in this OP is absurd.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:53 pm to Dam Guide
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This may have been suggested, but I am not going to reread the thread. There are plenty of options to pussify the game. First, take away admin powers from your oldest and make yourself a character that has that power. Basically the oldest can go into creative mode and screw over everyone. You can turn off PvP so they can't beat each other up in game as well. If the Minecraft is through PC/Mac, you have a nuclear option. There are mods you can put on the server to give land ownership. Basically you can section parts of the world to each kid. When you do this, that part of the world becomes theirs and no one can build/destroy/mine except the owner kid. There are all kinds of mods to basically allow each kid to live in the same world and not be able to frick with each other if you don't want them to do it.
Best answer I was hoping for right here. Last weekend I was like "I wish I had an Admin app on my phone to log in and e-bitchslap them all to play nice."
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:55 pm to SaintLSUnAtl
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You're son is hitting his sister and dropping f-bombs and you're about maintaining balance in the video game?
Yeah, because if you eliminate the video game, siblings will never cuss or fight with each other.
Do you even have kids?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 1:58 pm to The Third Leg
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Prolific gaming in childhood has shown to create social dysfunction and isolation.
God dammit. I knew I shoulda stopped playing them vidya games
But this one here hooked me. I was frickED and straight up jizzed on myself by the time Lara Croft was doing this shite in 3-D.
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Yeah, because if you eliminate the video game, siblings will never cuss or fight with each other.
Very good question. My brother beat me up all the time and cussed me if I didn't give him half my fricking cheeseburger.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 1:59 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:00 pm to mikelbr
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Best answer I was hoping for right here. Last weekend I was like "I wish I had an Admin app on my phone to log in and e-bitchslap them all to play nice."
Yeah, there are plenty of things you can do via PC and I think there are some RCON type phone apps to allow you to give them temp bans and such if you really want that. You either need to take the time to learn how to install it all or find someone who knows and get them to hook it all up for you. Lots you can do to this game to lock it down more.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:05 pm to Dam Guide
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you to give them temp bans and such if you really want that
Oh dear baby jeezus I will look into that. Parents of multiple kids will get this. Sometimes they will be in different rooms and I'll hear "[name], STOP ITTTT!!" and I'm watching the LSU game or some shite I'm really into.
Would be nice to be in ghost/god mode without them knowing and I be like ZAP! and freeze any of them for 5 minutes.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 2:07 pm
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:09 pm to mikelbr
What's really good parenting is when you rage quit, slinging remotes & dropping f bombs playing Halo with your 12 year old!
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:13 pm to BoostAddict
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What's really good parenting is when you rage quit, slinging remotes & dropping f bombs playing Halo with your 12 year old!
My 15 y/o and I worked on my ExMark's hydraulic pump belt for about two hours earlier this week. When we finally got it on, I stood up and screamed, "Yes, Bitch!!" and threw the vice grips on the ground. He laughed.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:24 pm to CAD703X
It sounds like your son is going to be an architect.
Congrats on retiring rich.
Congrats on retiring rich.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 2:26 pm to The Third Leg
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Video games make kids socially inept.
Yeah but there's an app for that
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