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re: Cheating is pretty much the new norm

Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:17 pm to
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32712 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:17 pm to
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However, are the Jody's really looked down upon anymore?
in my eyes, yes, but I consider myself only mildly trashy. Anyone who knowingly bangs a married person is not someone I would associate with.
Posted by Bluefin
The Banana Stand
Member since Apr 2011
13259 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:17 pm to
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if you throw in emotional affairs

Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32712 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:18 pm to
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And the importance of not making your partner feel unwanted. Nobody wants to feel that way.
always remember you are only getting one side (likely heavily skewed) of the story.
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
40103 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:19 pm to
Displaced baw what you gotta do to have a successful non cheating marriage?

Bang a lot, the good kinda banging no starfishin? Always have a job? Not be too Independent?

I am still single, trying to learn everything I can from the OT baws who fricked up
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32712 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:21 pm to
Don't marry a shitty person. Don't be a shitty person. Don't get complacent. Don't get fat.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15409 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:22 pm to
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Don't marry a shitty person. Don't be a shitty person. Don't get complacent. Don't get fat.


And don't buy her tits.

-The OT
Posted by Hangover Haven
Metry
Member since Oct 2013
26606 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:22 pm to
People don't know how to keep shite quiet today...
Posted by blueridgeTiger
Granbury, TX
Member since Jun 2004
20285 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:26 pm to
I've got to admit I do some looking too
But she's the only one I love
She still tells me she loves me
But I wonder if my love's enough

Cause she just started liking cheatin' songs
And what's bothering me
I don't know if its the cheatin' she likes
Or just the melody
Posted by Grandioso
Driftwood, TX
Member since Dec 2015
1597 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:30 pm to
An overall decline in moral fiber is the new norm, not cheating.
Posted by Wolf
Member since Sep 2005
1336 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:31 pm to
In my experience the reasons the spouses cheat can be broken down into 3 categories.

1) Spouse fell out of love / was never in love in the first place with SO and is either too comfortable being taken care of financialy too be honest or doesn't have the balls to be honest.

2) Spouse feels underappreciated/mistreated

3) Spouse is is so insecure and/or attention seeking that they would have cheated on anyone they were with.
Posted by Scruffy
Kansas City
Member since Jul 2011
72128 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:31 pm to
Cheating is as old as prostitution.
Posted by LSUZombie
A Cemetery Near You
Member since Apr 2008
28905 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:33 pm to
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My wife says she just loves me and thats why she won't cheat. I say I won't because I can't live with the guilt. If we see someone of the opposite sex getting to chummy with the other, we will squash that shite real quick. It's worked out fine so far. I got no complaints.


She is 100% cheating on you
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56329 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:34 pm to
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All the divorced, trashy baws shite on their ex wives and claim all women are crazy while maintaining they were 100% blame free
If they didnt have an affair, they are blame free. You cant force me to do something I promised not to do, I dont care how big of an a-hole you are...that is how promises work.
Posted by Spaceman Spiff
Savannah
Member since Sep 2012
17499 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:36 pm to
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Bluefin

quote:

if you throw in emotional affairs


Think of emotional affairs like this, your wife confides in another man behind your back. Maybe he lives away, maybe not. Maybe feelings have developed on a certain level but it hasn't gone physical yet.

Or, are you OK with your wife (assuming you are married) keeping texts/emails/phone calls to another man hidden from you? Is that a form of cheating?
Posted by Clark W Griswold
THE USA
Member since Sep 2012
10510 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:36 pm to
We have a couple that we are friends with, wife is really close to other wife, me and him are cool but don't hang out without the wives. Anyway, I found out he cheats on her and now I find out she cheats on him. My wife only knew about her but was ok with it until she found out he cheated. Now she thinks he is a piece of shite for it. So it's ok for the girl to cheat because of her emotional needs but he is just a dick for doing it. Double standard. Women will justify anything I guess.
Posted by SCLSUMuddogs
Baton Rouge
Member since Feb 2010
6867 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:37 pm to
Again with your emotional affair nonsense. If it isn't physical, it isn't cheating.
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15409 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:39 pm to
Someone close to me traveled a lot for work, and cheated on his wife repeatedly. I think he even developed a long-lasting relationship with one of the women he cheated with. He often talked about how his nerves and worrying consumed his every thought, causing him to have constant nightmares about getting caught. Who wants that shite in their lives?
Posted by Havoc
Member since Nov 2015
28394 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:42 pm to
People that have not cheated:
cheaters are pieces of shite.

People that have cheated:
My needs weren't being met, spouse was abusive or indifferent, etc.

Truth? Varies by case I'm sure.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:43 pm to
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they are a selfish piece of shite


FIFY
Posted by LSUTigerFan247
Member since Jun 2017
3632 posts
Posted on 9/6/17 at 1:44 pm to
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People always have.....the cell phone (and multi-media) is the reason its coming out now


This is the truth. 30 years ago you didn't have to worry about 30 dudes being able to randomly send messages and photos to your spouse/gf while she was literally sitting right next to you at home. The ease of communicating now is really putting relationships to the test.
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