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re: Cant stand this guy in my new GF's social circle
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:52 am to SirWinston
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:52 am to SirWinston
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travel a ton for work.
sorry, baw. If you're this insecure now what are you going to do when you are gone for work? Make her face time you all the time?
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Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:54 am to Jreily85
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But he shouldn't have to hang out so frequently with a guy that fricked his GF.
This I agree with. And that guy has his current GF and 2 chicks he used to frick in his social circle? Damn. He's alpha as frick. I'll admit I'd be jealous of that guy, until i debated him, destroyed him in debate, he got pissed, we went outside, i whooped his arse, then took home my GF laughing about how much of a pussy he was and how she cant believe she ever liked him.
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And this is from a female perspective.
SO...... pics?
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 7:55 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:55 am to Breesus
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And that guy has his current GF and 2 chicks he used to frick in his social circle? Damn. He's alpha as frick
yeah this guy sounds unreal
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:55 am to DirtyMikeandtheBoys
quit hanging out with commies.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:56 am to Breesus
I would think that it would bother his current GF. That is, if she knows the truth.
And no pics.
And no pics.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:58 am to monsterballads
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yeah this guy sounds unreal
Probably the most true statement ITT
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:59 am to Jreily85
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if they've only been exclusive for 2 weeks, then it's disrespectful. I mean, it's a new relationship...she should want to spend more time with him.
Depends on the situation. Me and my group of friends used to hang out with the same group of girls in high school and college. Ive been with a few of them. I couldnt just not see any of my friends anymore when i started dating my now fiance. But I'm confident and arrogant, she's trustworthy, and i never made it a point to talk to them or leave her alone.
It isnt the bringing him around the ex that's disrespectful, it's the talking to him and about him all the time that's disrepsectful,
And everyone, EVERYONE, has a safety net in their pocket. That person they flirt with and keep on the backburner. In new relationships you always meet that person. How you handle that situation can go along way either positively or negatively.
I like the advice someone else above me gave. Buy him a couple beers, shoot the shite about whatever, become friends, itll lower the tension.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 7:59 am to Breesus
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This I agree with. And that guy has his current GF and 2 chicks he used to frick in his social circle? Damn. He's alpha as frick. I'll admit I'd be jealous of that guy, until i debated him, destroyed him in debate, he got pissed, we went outside, i whooped his arse, then took home my GF laughing about how much of a pussy he was and how she cant believe she ever liked him.
He is really alpha, and also very intellectual, smooth, and he knows tons of people in every bar.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 8:00 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:01 am to Jreily85
You do realize you will be asked that million dollar question everyday you post on the ot? Now for the original poster, dude you just need to calm down. If she's fricking him so what there are a hell of a lot more women. if you are this bothered you need to find someone else or actually be friends with the guy as well as learn a new hobby (something manly).
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:01 am to SirWinston
Sir Winston, I think LSUtothetop gave a great answer on page 1, and I'm going to build on that a little bit for you.
Look, it's real simple. The best thing you can do is be the best version of who you are, as much as you can around your new girlfriend. Don't let this guy bring out your worst version. Be yourself. We already know that works. So trust it.
As men, we will always be in situations where we have to compete, and sometimes that will be for the attention of a woman. In situations like this, don't defer to the other guy and be intimidated. He's only as powerful as you let him be in your head. If you relax and let your good qualities interact with your girl, you will be fine. Believe me, she will notice if you let this guy in your head and intimidate you. Relax and don't acknowledge him. View him the same way you view a monkey hooting at the zoo.
Lastly, don't get caught up in minutiae in comparing yourself to him. "I make more money than him," "I'm sure I'm sexually superior to him," "He's only interesting because he's a professor in what she majored in."
None of that matters for shite. You know what women like? Confidence. Know that on the WHOLE you are the better man... and as that better man, you don't have to worry about competition. They are insignificant to you.
The more this guy stretches for attention and the more you chill... the worse he looks and the better you look. Women will notice it.
Look, it's real simple. The best thing you can do is be the best version of who you are, as much as you can around your new girlfriend. Don't let this guy bring out your worst version. Be yourself. We already know that works. So trust it.
As men, we will always be in situations where we have to compete, and sometimes that will be for the attention of a woman. In situations like this, don't defer to the other guy and be intimidated. He's only as powerful as you let him be in your head. If you relax and let your good qualities interact with your girl, you will be fine. Believe me, she will notice if you let this guy in your head and intimidate you. Relax and don't acknowledge him. View him the same way you view a monkey hooting at the zoo.
Lastly, don't get caught up in minutiae in comparing yourself to him. "I make more money than him," "I'm sure I'm sexually superior to him," "He's only interesting because he's a professor in what she majored in."
None of that matters for shite. You know what women like? Confidence. Know that on the WHOLE you are the better man... and as that better man, you don't have to worry about competition. They are insignificant to you.
The more this guy stretches for attention and the more you chill... the worse he looks and the better you look. Women will notice it.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:02 am to SirWinston
No way this turns out well for you. Prayers sent.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:02 am to Jreily85
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I would think that it would bother his current GF. That is, if she knows the truth.
She is so obviously unhappy but tries to play it off. I will try to be the best version of me. My main concern is that I wasn't cool on Sat night and I'm sure she notice me being jelly. I think I saved face well enough and I'll just move on from here.
This post was edited on 11/24/14 at 8:05 am
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:02 am to SirWinston
He is an alpha; you are a beta.
This is the circle of life.
This is the circle of life.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:03 am to SirWinston
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I feel like I cuckolded myself by sticking only with this chick and now that she has me she can pull shite like this.
The answer is simple, my friend. Kick. Her. To. The. Curb. A relationship that makes you feel like shite or a lesser man is not a relationship you want to be in.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:04 am to SirWinston
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the only problem is they aren't as hot as my GF so I don't think that would be the best or most effective idea
Ahhh, now I see. This is what comes with dating hot chicks man. I now know you aren't used to it, but when you are with a OT 8 in a bar full of OT 4's and 5's they are going to get hit on.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:05 am to SirWinston
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He is really alpha, and also very intellectual, smooth, and he knows tons of people in every bar.
Statements like this make me believe you're either trolling, or honestly you have a crush on the guy yourself.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:06 am to Mear
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He is an alpha; you are a beta.
I'm not a beta, I'm just not as alpha as he is - and certainly not in his bar where he obviously posts up every fricking weekend and knows everybody.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:06 am to Breesus
i hate to say this....but I don't see this relationship working out for the OP.
Why in the hell is she going out with her new "exclusive" BF and chatting up the other guy. That and her talking about him constantly likely means that she is still somewhat into him.
I realize that when you're in a relationship that you will come across people from each other's past from time to time. But I still think that hanging out with the guy so frequently is fricked up.
Why in the hell is she going out with her new "exclusive" BF and chatting up the other guy. That and her talking about him constantly likely means that she is still somewhat into him.
I realize that when you're in a relationship that you will come across people from each other's past from time to time. But I still think that hanging out with the guy so frequently is fricked up.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:07 am to Breesus
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Statements like this make me believe you're either trolling, or honestly you have a crush on the guy yourself.
I'm not fricking trolling, you just said that same thing yourself, baw.
When I started this thread I had a ton of resentments towards the dude and hated him, and now I see pretty clearly that he has exceptional game and is about as tough an obstacle as I'd have to face in this type of situation.
Posted on 11/24/14 at 8:09 am to gamecocks22
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This is what comes with dating hot chicks man. I now know you aren't used to it, but when you are with a OT 8 in a bar full of OT 4's and 5's they are going to get hit on.
If you're going to date hot and crazy you better be able to deal with hot and crazy. You can't fight the tides, you can't fight the river, but man has learned to dam and guide the currents.
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