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re: breaking it off etiquette

Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:28 am to
Posted by hendersonshands
Univ. of Louisiana Ragin Cajuns
Member since Oct 2007
160104 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:28 am to
I once got a buddy to break up with a girl on AIM for me.
Posted by AtlantaLSUfan
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23028 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:30 am to
Tell her you're talking to someone.

Girls will figure it out. Radio silence for a bit is fine, then give her curious mind a reason with a phone call. Keep it short.
Posted by cjk5h
TX
Member since Oct 2013
287 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:32 am to
If you haven't had a "Define the relationship" talk and no fornication Then I feel like you don't owe her shite and silence is fine.
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4239 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:32 am to
4 dates is pretty quick for a bang.

If you date her, then your only 4 dates away from her banging somebody else.
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43456 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:32 am to
quote:

And you have you had an "exclusive" talk yet?


Do people do this after 4 dates where they haven't hooked up?
Posted by SouthOfSouth
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2008
43456 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:33 am to
I would probably slowly stop texting her. If she asked if anything is wrong then I'd say it wasn't working out, but if there has been no talk of exclusiveness, I'd just let it fizzle out.
Posted by NoSaint
Member since Jun 2011
11269 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:36 am to
yea, i think you can stop initiating conversation - and if she reaches out explain politely you arent that into it.

if you want to be friends with her (which it doesnt sound like) then definitely initiate it yourself.
Posted by CaptainsWafer
TD Platinum Member
Member since Feb 2006
58314 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:38 am to
This may have been addressed, but if you're looking for severe situations, shouldn't it be DEFCON 1?

Posted by MikeHoncho
Anytown, USA
Member since Oct 2012
2769 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:40 am to
quote:

So you're upset she's not a slut?


absolutely not. There is a time and place for sluts, however.
Posted by MikeHoncho
Anytown, USA
Member since Oct 2012
2769 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:41 am to
quote:

Call her. You never know when you might run into her again and she introduces you to her hot, horny friend


Good point.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
123954 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:45 am to
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4 dates is pretty quick for a bang. If you date her, then your only 4 dates away from her banging somebody else.



Really?
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4239 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:46 am to
quote:

really?

Nah, I was just kidding dude.
Posted by massiveattack
CharLIT/Chapel Chill
Member since Oct 2010
11554 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:46 am to
I go radio silent but it will get really awkward when your paths cross
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81186 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:47 am to
quote:

I would probably slowly stop texting her. If she asked if anything is wrong then I'd say it wasn't working out, but if there has been no talk of exclusiveness, I'd just let it fizzle out.


Exactly.

I understand the whole respect thing, but I don't think it's disrespectful to stop hanging out with someone naturally.

I tend to be a piece of shite though, so.
Posted by Traffic Circle
Down the Rabbit Hole
Member since Nov 2013
4239 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:48 am to
Buy a strap-on and let her coit you first?
Posted by TigerPox
Member since Oct 2010
33333 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:48 am to
quote:

4 dates with a girl. No coitus.


Are you breaking it off with her because of no sex yet? Or are you breaking it off with her out of disinterest?

I'm just curious.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:50 am to
quote:

I tend to be a piece of shite though, so.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81186 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:50 am to
He said it wasn't because of the no sex in the comments somewhere, I believe.
Posted by Bosco2579
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
80 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:50 am to
I would rather a text that said Hey this isn't going to work out. See you around.
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39780 posts
Posted on 10/29/14 at 11:50 am to
It does sort of depend on the woman and/or the relationship you have. At 4 dates, if both sides can kind of feel it I can see where a text will suffice. If she wont see it coming I still say call. Ive had plenty friends who talk about how much they like a guy they've only been a couple dates on.
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