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Baton Rouge Christening-How Much to “Donate” to Church/Tip Priest

Posted on 2/16/24 at 11:48 pm
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
5266 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 11:48 pm
I’ve been honored to be a godfather, though I’m not Catholic. At all.

Just got into BR, and discussing process with the father of the godson.

How much is a typical donation to the church?

Thanks in advance.
Posted by dnm3305
Member since Feb 2009
13575 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 11:55 pm to
The Church isn’t hurting for money, and there’s a 6% chance the priest has molested children.

So to answer your question, it depends on who you ask. I think all the money that funds the Catholic Church is responsible for enabling the molestation of children. If there were only a few hundred children then no one would be able to say anything. But it’s 100’s of thousands of kids and it’s enabled because the Church has so much power. It has so much power because it is so well funded.
Posted by tylerlsu2008
Zurich
Member since Jul 2015
1099 posts
Posted on 2/16/24 at 11:55 pm to
How is that possible? They put me through the wringer getting paper work, proving sacraments, etc in the Catholic Church.

I’ve never heard of making a donation to the church. Unless of course, you’re trying to grease wheels for something, which if I’m being honest, will probably work.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98188 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 12:19 am to


Depends on how much showmanship is involved. This guy would deserve a couple hundo easily.
Posted by TankBoys32
Member since Mar 2019
2802 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 12:22 am to
They got enough money, get a Bible or a nice gift for your God son. Something they’ll keep for a long time
Posted by PerplenGold
TX
Member since Nov 2021
1183 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 12:28 am to
Really, I have to do this?

$3.50 is customary. Any more and you’re just showing off.

Or overcompensating…for what??
Posted by LSUGrad9295
Baton Rouge
Member since May 2007
33483 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 12:31 am to
quote:

The Church isn’t hurting for money, and there’s a 6% chance the priest has molested children.

So to answer your question, it depends on who you ask. I think all the money that funds the Catholic Church is responsible for enabling the molestation of children. If there were only a few hundred children then no one would be able to say anything. But it’s 100’s of thousands of kids and it’s enabled because the Church has so much power. It has so much power because it is so well funded.


I don't know what is sadder--this post or the fact that it has about as many upvotes as downvotes
Posted by WinnPtiger
Fort Worth
Member since Mar 2011
23876 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 12:43 am to
the simple fact that this even needs to be asked should raise some much larger questions
Posted by TheDude321
Member since Sep 2005
3158 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 1:45 am to
quote:

How is that possible?


It's possible that the OP is just trolling. I'm not aware of any religious denomination that doesn't require the godparents to be of the same denomination as the godchild. Otherwise, that would completely defeat the entire point of having godparents to begin with - how can someone counsel someone else on their faith when they don't even share the same faith?

quote:

I’ve never heard of making a donation to the church.


No one does in this kind of a situation.
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
5266 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 4:03 am to
quote:

It's possible that the OP is just trolling. I'm not aware of any religious denomination that doesn't require the godparents to be of the same denomination as the godchild.


I concur.
Was told as long as one of us are catholic (me or godmother), we’re good.

My question is sincere and legitimate.
Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
54717 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 4:13 am to
Just be the best godfather you can and if anybody messes with the kid, they will sleep with the fishes.

I am Godfather to many kids and I love it. Officially your duties (with the Godmother) is to stand in stead if something happens to the parents so the kid is raised as a proper Catholic and you are their spiritual mentor in this process. In reality you get to spoil them rotten. If they happen to be Irish Catholic you hit the lottery as you get to teach the lad to drink, fornicate, and fight (always handy at Irish wakes).

Posted by Cheese Grits
Wherever I lay my hat is my home
Member since Apr 2012
54717 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 4:19 am to
quote:

I'm not aware of any religious denomination that doesn't require the godparents to be of the same denomination as the godchild. Otherwise, that would completely defeat the entire point of having godparents to begin with - how can someone counsel someone else on their faith when they don't even share the same faith?


I am a Vatican I Catholic, Vatican II made things "different". I am the adopted godfather to a kid whose original godfather was not Catholic, just the "bestie" of the father of the kid. Was terrible which is why I had to step in. Good thing, as many decades later the kid was getting married to a nice Catholic girl and I had to get the Baptismal Certificate as the dad and original godfather were too drunk / did not care and could not remember the actual event.
Posted by slutiger5
Parroquias de Florida
Member since May 2007
10639 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 5:38 am to
Itemized = 200 for the sacrament, 25 for the candle, 25 for the cloth, 100 for the sacramental oil and holy water. This of course is treefitty.
Posted by Philzilla2k
Member since Oct 2017
11070 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 5:42 am to
quote:

dnm3305

Coming in hot.
But yeah.
Posted by SixthAndBarone
Member since Jan 2019
8197 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 6:37 am to
I thought you kinda needed to be catholic to be godfather?


Donation to the church for someone who isn the parent? $20-$100.

Tip for the priest if it’s a private baptism - $100

Tip for the priest if it isn’t private - $0
Posted by LarryCLE
Member since Apr 2017
1547 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 6:56 am to
One of the two godparents has to be catholic. Both are supposed to be Christian.
Posted by Bayou Tiger
Member since Nov 2003
3658 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 7:04 am to
Probably more than you tip the Eucharistic minister for weekly communion but less than you tip the priest for a big confession
Posted by Geauxld Finger
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2005
31727 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 7:10 am to
You are a Christian Witness.

You are not responsible for the “donation”. That’s the parents responsibility
Posted by jbird7
Central FL
Member since Jul 2020
5242 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 7:19 am to
You don’t need to donate. Just get your godchild a nice gift like a cross to put in their room or children’s bible or something.
This post was edited on 2/17/24 at 7:20 am
Posted by BamaCoaster
God's Gulf
Member since Apr 2016
5266 posts
Posted on 2/17/24 at 7:29 am to
quote:

You are not responsible for the “donation”. That’s the parents responsibility


Understood, but the dad doesn’t know how much to donate, and obv I’m no help.
Event is in 3.5 hrs.
Any numerical advice appreciated.
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