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re: Apparently begging for donations for a wedding is a thing

Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:17 pm to
Posted by SuperSaint
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Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:17 pm to
I always wanted to do a tour type thing around with geo catch in nola kinda like the spy museum in DC.
Where you get clues that send you in different parts of the city and allows you to kinda see things off the beaten path with stops at local resturants that you could include in the price. Or something like that.

I know probably half the concierges in the city and could easily advertise with them and get the "tour" promoted.
Posted by KJason
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2008
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Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:17 pm to
I'm 33 so I'll assume I'm a millennial.

My issue is that it is becoming common place for people to depend on others so they can do things they can't afford. They almost expect the burden to shift to "the crowd". It used to take a village to raise a child, now it takes a wedding party to go to Fiji.

If someone offers to let you use a condo or gifts you some airline miles I would expect them to be a very close friend or most likely family. Even so I would never ask for something like that.
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
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Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:17 pm to
If a woman's parents can't afford the wedding then she probably isn't worth marrying.
Posted by BACONisMEATcandy
Member since Dec 2007
46644 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:18 pm to
This reminds me... I need to setup one of those go fund me things to supplement my retirement
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99247 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:20 pm to
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That's the thing. You know the bride is still going to expect shower gifts and wedding gift and all that crap.


Exactly. Double dipping assholes.

I will say I've seen Kickstarter/GoFund be used for some good things. I have a coworker whose wife has been diagnosed with Stage IV ovarian cancer. She's 32 with a 5 year old. I have no problem forking over some cash to help them out in anyway possible. So I don't totally hate the concept.
This post was edited on 2/7/15 at 5:21 pm
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:21 pm to
If they are truly dependent upon it, then I agree with you. But, from what I've seen, it's mostly being used to offset costs.

I'll be honest - I would prefer to give a couple cash that they could use for whatever they wanted, as opposed to actually purchasing some fricking dishes or towels that might get used twice a year.
Posted by KJason
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2008
1199 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:23 pm to
I agree with you that it has some great uses but it is also abused, like anything else.

Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
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89941 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:24 pm to
I'd give you $20.00, BACON.
Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99247 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:25 pm to
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I'll be honest - I would prefer to give a couple cash that they could use for whatever they wanted, as opposed to actually purchasing some fricking dishes or towels that might get used twice a year.


That'd be a great option ideally. But most women will probably still want wedding gifts too.
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
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Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:26 pm to
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But most women will probably still want wedding gifts too.



Don't. Give. A. frick.

Posted by BluegrassBelle
RIP Hefty Lefty - 1981-2019
Member since Nov 2010
99247 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:28 pm to
Just don't forget to record the reaction when you say "Wait? You didn't get my wedding donation?" when asked what you got them. In all it's glory.
Posted by BACONisMEATcandy
Member since Dec 2007
46644 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:28 pm to
Thanks Rummy, you're a good dude no matter what Owlie says
Posted by lsu480
Downtown Scottsdale
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:29 pm to
Well WTF are you waiting for?
Posted by RummelTiger
Texas
Member since Aug 2004
89941 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:30 pm to
quote:

Just don't forget to record the reaction when you say "Wait? You didn't get my wedding donation?" when asked what you got them. In all it's glory.


shite... If any woman went off on me because I gave them CASH, then she best be prepared for my reaction. I don't play those silly female games.
Posted by IonaTiger
The Commonwealth Of Virginia
Member since Mar 2006
33053 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:31 pm to
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Thanks Rummy, you're a good dude no matter what Owlie says


He earned his nickname, "Uncle Yummy".
Posted by SuperSaint
Sorting Out OT BS Since '2007'
Member since Sep 2007
140462 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:32 pm to
Don't know been having that idea shelved with a few others for like a decade now
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17244 posts
Posted on 2/7/15 at 5:35 pm to
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And I work on my feet. Should I start a gofundme to help with my medical issues and not being able to works as much?!!


Mother fricker you don't need to walk to be a drug dealer, stop being lazy
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