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Posted on 10/17/14 at 11:50 pm to Relham10
Survived the Big D. Family and friends And, surprisingly, this place. Lots of people who have been through what you're going through and who can give you honest, unbiased advice and just let you vent.
Met some real good guys from here when I was going through it.
ETA: yeah, the affection of a woman can really help
Met some real good guys from here when I was going through it.
ETA: yeah, the affection of a woman can really help
This post was edited on 10/17/14 at 11:51 pm
Posted on 10/17/14 at 11:53 pm to SuperSaint
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I love all these guys that immediatly leave a relationship and just start slaying everything that walks with a pulse immediatly..... That's not really real world talk but I've never been "married", so maybe wrong in my thinking. I've never found getting straight from one relationship and jumping straight on top of another female to ever help. Does more harm than good...
Divorce can destroy a man's ego. Sex with women can help restore it.
Posted on 10/17/14 at 11:59 pm to fr33manator
Yeah I've never been through something as brutal as a divorce so I probably shouldn't have commented... But I mean is the thinking "I need to probe to myself I can still be a man har har"? Or is it you are just horny and need to get your rocks off.
In my young college years yeah I needed, had to, wanted to frick every single woman in the entire world and was on a mission to do it and did a damn good job. But at 32 and after years of having some regrets after losing a good relationship and going 0 to super horn dog and wishing I'd have maybe felt around a little more maybe things could have been different. Maybe I'm talking gibberish. I just know I could probably walk out my apartment right now, walk down the street, check out a couple bars, load up the old FB machine or whatever and have a 50:50 chance of getting my rocks off. So that proves nothing to me and really doesn't excite me.
In my young college years yeah I needed, had to, wanted to frick every single woman in the entire world and was on a mission to do it and did a damn good job. But at 32 and after years of having some regrets after losing a good relationship and going 0 to super horn dog and wishing I'd have maybe felt around a little more maybe things could have been different. Maybe I'm talking gibberish. I just know I could probably walk out my apartment right now, walk down the street, check out a couple bars, load up the old FB machine or whatever and have a 50:50 chance of getting my rocks off. So that proves nothing to me and really doesn't excite me.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:01 am to 20MuleTeam
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Having sex with college girls
did that when I was going through it
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:01 am to SuperSaint
that is so sweet read...
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:03 am to prettygifty01
Wasn't looking for sweet, just lost my taste for easy woman. Maybe I need to get checked for low T or something.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:06 am to SuperSaint
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Yeah I've never been through something as brutal as a divorce so I probably shouldn't have commented..
Exactly. STFU. You're over-opinionated like a bitch.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:07 am to SuperSaint
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Wasn't looking for sweet, just lost my taste for easy woman. Maybe I need to get checked for low T or something.
whatever works, divorce rocks you emotionally and psychologically, as a friend of mine said, it takes away part of your soul, there's some innate physiological thing about going out and knocking off a strange piece of arse that sort of helps reset the equilibrium
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:10 am to 777Tiger
I bet saying you're a pilot is a panty dropper
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:11 am to TheIndulger
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I bet saying you're a pilot is a panty dropper
doesn't hurt
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:11 am to SuperSaint
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But I mean is the thinking "I need to probe to myself I can still be a man har har"? Or is it you are just horny and need to get your rocks off.
Think about this. If you are going through a divorce, especially one involving infidelity, you will probably be thinking "was it me? Is something wrong with me? And I that bad in bed? Am I that unattractive? Will anyone ever want me again?"
And finding that, yes, women are still willing to get on top of you and do the nasty...and maybe even give you a little education and make you a better lover...well, that's an ego booster.
Also a great time to find who you are sexually.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:11 am to Relham10
Friends. Really is the best.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:18 am to fr33manator
I wonder if guys who get divorced on their own terms (not cheated on) feel the terrible divorce stings like you have.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:22 am to TheIndulger
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I wonder if guys who get divorced on their own terms (not cheated on) feel the terrible divorce stings like you have.
I'd be inclined to say yes. I'm a pretty confident guy, accomplished a thing or two, have pretty much always had a solution to a problem, but divorce kind of does a mind game on you. Divorce, even though it's the right thing in many cases is admitting failure, and your mind begins to try and second guess you, and allow ridiculous questions about yourself to cross your mind. It's a bitch.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:23 am to TheIndulger
Maybe not when it's mutual, but it was a huge factor for me. 2 years out we had a discussion and it was really about being sexually incompatible. I'm much more wild and adventurous and kinky and intense...and she had issues.
Sexually divorce was a blessing for me. I've had more sex, better sex. I've learned a LOT and I can give as good as I get. Ego has a ton to do with that.
So to the many women who helped me go on my sexual spirit journey...I thank you.
Sexually divorce was a blessing for me. I've had more sex, better sex. I've learned a LOT and I can give as good as I get. Ego has a ton to do with that.
So to the many women who helped me go on my sexual spirit journey...I thank you.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:32 am to 777Tiger
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I'll honor GeauxxxTigers23's request. It's an ugly story, one that a Hollywood script writer couldn't make up. I've never heard of one worse than mine.
I'd be willing to compare, but the mods are bothered by my story for some reason.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:34 am to Come2Conquer
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I'd be willing to compare
wow, sorry to hear that, what I've gone through, I wouldn't wish on anyone, sucks doesn't it?
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:38 am to 777Tiger
Sorry to hear you guys went through such a rough time. Mine isn't half as bad as yalls sounds but marriage failure sucks especially when it involves little kids like my situation.
Posted on 10/18/14 at 12:39 am to 777Tiger
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wow, sorry to hear that, what I've gone through, I wouldn't wish on anyone, sucks doesn't it?
Only 10.5 months removed from the actual decree, but all the stuff that lead up to it, what occurred during it, & even shite that's still happening after it leads me to wonder how long it will be before I'm truly over it.
The latest reminder is that she's still using my last name.
Thank God for work & the gym!
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