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A twist on a GoFundMe

Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:06 pm
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:06 pm
Working from home Monday afternoon, when I suddenly hear a couple of police cars, ambulance, and fire truck flying down my street, followed soon behind by another 6-8 cops, followed by about a dozen plainsclothes officers.

Around the corner from me, a guy walked into his house and shot himself dead. In front of his wife, and the wife's two older sons. He had two younger kids, and they had a young kid together. The younger kids were still in school, the very young kid was at preschool.

Apparently the woman had recently been caught having an affair, and he could not handle it. Earlier that day, he purchased a gun and some ammo, not sure how much. At some point, he posted on facebook that his wife "would have blood on her hands". Drove to the house, argument ensued, he puts gun to head, boom.

Terrible.

Tuesday afternoon, some neighbors start sharing a post for a go fund me account. I guess friends and family have started a go fund me account, and are trying to raise 30K to pay for a funeral, and for the wife and kids to have some support. The page mentions the great friend, husband, etc dying in a tragedy. No mention of how he died.

Obviously this is a sad situation, and I feel bad for the kids left behind without a father. I do find it odd that they would make a public request for 30K. Since yesterday afternoon, they have raised about $1800.

Does this happen often these days?
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:09 pm to
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Apparently the woman had recently been caught having an affair,
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trying to raise 30K to pay for a funeral, and for the wife and kids to have some support


Pass.
Posted by idlewatcher
County Jail
Member since Jan 2012
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:10 pm to
Better than shooting the kids and the wife like what happened here in Houston.

Sad story all around.
Posted by HebertFest08
The Coast
Member since Aug 2008
6392 posts
Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:10 pm to
If you don't have life insurance....

much easier to have the insurance rather than having people beg for money to pay for a funeral and final expenses. Especially if he loved his wife that much... you'd think he would've took care of her and his kids.
Posted by Steadyhands
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:11 pm to
That's a messed up situation there. Selfish in this case especially. Put his own feelings over caring for children he brought into this world. So now his kids grow up knowing this woman was more important to him then they were.
This post was edited on 10/5/16 at 2:25 pm
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:11 pm to
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Pass.


I feel bad for the kids - the three that are his, because they will not have a dad, and the two stepkids that saw what happened.

The wife, nope.
Posted by Ash Williams
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Member since May 2009
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:12 pm to
this

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much easier to have the insurance rather than having people beg for money to pay for a funeral and final expenses. Especially if he loved his wife that much... you'd think he would've took care of her and his kids.



and this:


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I feel bad for the kids - the three that are his, because they will not have a dad, and the two stepkids that saw what happened.

The wife, nope
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:13 pm to
Most life insurance policies have a two year suicide clause, right?

Not to be mean, and I didn't know these people other than seeing them around the neighborhood, but I don't think they are the financially savvy type to think about life insurance.

From what I have been able to tell, this was a very rash thing. He found out about the affair Sunday, spent Sunday night at a friend's house, did not go to work Monday, killed himself Monday afternoon.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:15 pm to
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So now his kids grown up knowing this woman was more important to him then they were.



Yup... and two of the kids, this woman was not even their mother. Very sad situation.

Finding out someone is cheating on you has to be an awful situation to be in. I can't imagine. But, to kill yourself over that? I wonder if he had other issues as well.
Posted by Sao
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Member since Jun 2009
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:17 pm to

Sorry for the kids but let her filthy arse and the new beau fund their needs. Her sadness and new plight should not overshadow her own brand of selfishness.
Posted by Rouge
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Member since Oct 2004
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:19 pm to
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wonder if he had other issues as well.
ya think?

He only cared about himself and appears to have given zero thought to kids
Posted by Dirty Rascal
BR/Nola
Member since Sep 2014
1010 posts
Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:20 pm to
Damn, that's fricking terrible. Feel bad for the kids.

He shoulda made it his life's mission to ruin his hoe wife financially, mentally.. instead of pulling the trigger.


Posted by Sinister1
Metairie
Member since Dec 2007
1872 posts
Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:23 pm to
A guy I used to work with had his brother in law die from an overdose. No kids, no wife. The family started a go fund me to bury him. I thought that was kind of fricked up also.
This post was edited on 10/5/16 at 2:25 pm
Posted by Steadyhands
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Member since May 2016
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:24 pm to
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and two of the kids, this woman was not even their mother


My thoughts exactly. Sometimes when reading about situations like this, or the drug OD that I posted about earlier, where a parent or both are dead...well it makes me wonder what exactly would happen if I were to be killed while my daughter is still at a young age. You know in the long run your child would be fine because of family/friends, but the immediate time after...just depressing stuff to think about sometimes. Maybe I'm weird to think about that, but I imagine at some point all good parents think about that sort of thing.
Posted by upgrayedd
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:27 pm to
So the husband has no money or assets they can use to fund the funeral or support the kids?
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Member since Jul 2009
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:27 pm to
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well it makes me wonder what exactly would happen if I were to be killed while my daughter is still at a young age. You know in the long run your child would be fine because of family/friends, but the immediate time after...just depressing stuff to think about sometimes. Maybe I'm weird to think about that, but I imagine at some point all good parents think about that sort of thing.


I think about this as well.

I have a pretty solid amount of life insurance, my wife has less but she makes less (I'd rather her have more, but, I can't force her). We both have wills. In the event that both of us were to die, our request is that my wife's sister become their guardians. (no pics of anyone)

One of the reasons we moved back to LA was to be closer to our families, and goodness knows, that support system would be critical in this situation.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:29 pm to
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So the husband has no money or assets they can use to fund the funeral or support the kids?


I have no idea, I would have to think so, right? At least something. One of the many reasons why having this appeal go up less than 24 hours after he died is strange to me
Posted by Steadyhands
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Member since May 2016
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:45 pm to
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I think about this as well.


Nice to know I'm not the only one.

I have a hefty life insurance as well. It's mostly the initial few days of what's going to happen to your child and what would they do, which all depends on where you were at the time of it happening. Also, the long term impact seems like it would be drastic in some ways. My dad's mom passed away when he was 14 and he has really never said much about it.
Posted by LSUFanHouston
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 2:54 pm to
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Also, the long term impact seems like it would be drastic in some ways.


I'm sure it would be horrific. If one of us died, we would have to pretty seriously lean on others for support. I have daughters, and those moments where they want/need their mom... horrible. If both of us were to go, my SIL is very close to my kids... she lives 10 min away and is at our house almost every day, her and my wife are very close and only 15 months apart
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 10/5/16 at 3:05 pm to
I know funerals are not that cheap.. But $30k? What type of work did he do? What about the wife?

Honestly, that is a horrible tragedy and the wife will probably need help that goes beyond financial...
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