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re: : How long should you wait before calling a girl?

Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:31 pm to
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:31 pm to
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You scream insecure creep.

Putting a girl in a position where she feels backed into a corner is a beta move. It makes her feel like she has to say yes to you.. which is exactly what you want to happen.

Ask any girl. We've all experienced it. There are so many guys who react in a very immature (and scary) way when you turn them down, so a lot of chicks who don't have thick skin just give out their number anyway. Luckily, I've grown to not care if I hurt their feelings by saying no, but it happens all the time with chicks. Give a guy your number so he won't get angry at you in person.. and just don't respond to any texts/calls.

Obviously, there are times when a girl is truly interested in you and this won't happen. But STILL.. slipping her your number will always make you look confident and won't make you feel played if she just never texts/calls.

Source: I am a woman... With a cocky man who never backed me into a corner to be with him.


ok, i will try it your way next time, but if it doesn't work im holding you personally reponsible
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:32 pm to
being confident is that if there is something there, you know she will contact you.

leave your mark.

if you have had some interaction with the girl for awhile in lets say a bar, by the time its time to do some number exchange because yall are parting ways, she knows whether or not she wants to see you again.
Posted by S
RIP Wayde
Member since Jan 2007
155859 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:32 pm to
i will text her later near the end of the next day then possibly call in a couple more days assuming there is something there.
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53418 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:32 pm to
I've never waited. Call if you want to call. Have something to say or set up though.
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
Member since Aug 2004
78060 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:32 pm to
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Tis always been a dumb question. Answer: whenever the hell YOU feel is necessary.

Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81225 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:33 pm to
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This post was edited on 1/27/14 at 11:31 pm
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81225 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:33 pm to
quote:

Turkey_Creek_Tiger



You like me, remember?! trust me on this one ;)
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171055 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:33 pm to
quote:

Source:


your reddit is showing
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63517 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:33 pm to
Once upon a time...

I almost didn't ask for a girl's number.

I almost didn't call her the next day.

I almost didn't ask her on a first date because it was Valentine's Day.

As a result, I almost didn't find 12 happy years of marriage and family.

Moral of the story: If you like this girl, don't play games... cuz you never know!

Posted by bigberg2000
houston, from chalmette
Member since Sep 2005
70064 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:34 pm to
LL. The perfect lady.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:34 pm to
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you're giving good advice to this kid, but jesus the ubersimplistic "alpha/beta" labels are so stupid. Life is not black and white, it is many shades of grey.



i agree. and its funny because she she thinks the same way. the whole beta/alpha thing was brought from another party.

every situation is different when it comes to a guy and a girl interacting. the guy straight up called giving a girl your number a beta and a pussy move. the convo got dumbed down right there
Posted by HeadyBrosevelt
the Verde River
Member since Jan 2013
21590 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:34 pm to
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Just call her the wrong name once and see what happens.


Learned this the hard way
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81225 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:34 pm to
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ubersimplistic "alpha/beta" labels are so stupid


Holy shite do I agree with you here.

I am used to having these convos on reddit where we don't use those labels, but I used them for the sake of this website/thread
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:35 pm to
is only texting and not calling acceptable? I hate talking on the phone with anyone
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:35 pm to
Please tell me you showed these pathetic fb messages to Jones and y'all both laughed your asses off at them
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81225 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:36 pm to
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your reddit is showing



I was thinking that as I typed it.

It's an addiction, TH!
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
12343 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:37 pm to
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You like me, remember?! trust me on this one ;)




I don't even know you. What gave you the idea that I like you?
This post was edited on 1/27/14 at 10:38 pm
Posted by Hulkklogan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2010
43305 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:37 pm to
If we were on Reddit, instead of alpha/beta stuff you'd get this:

CumDrops123:
Thanks for the advice, milady *tips fedora*

DogPoopOlay!:
You are a wordy bitch

Ih8fgts:
FEDORAS UNITE!!
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
81225 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:38 pm to
quote:

is only texting and not calling acceptable? I hate talking on the phone with anyone



I have no problem with texts.

Just don't text me "Hey" or "What's up" after meeting me. Set something up!

quote:

Please tell me you showed these pathetic fb messages to Jones and y'all both laughed your asses off at them



OMG yes. I sent them to him and my best friend who was on her way back from Arizona. Her friend in the car read them aloud and she said it made for a full hour of entertainment.
Posted by TH03
Mogadishu
Member since Dec 2008
171055 posts
Posted on 1/27/14 at 10:38 pm to
just wait till you start browsing /new and become a cynical a-hole because of reposts and just utterly shite posts
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