re: As a man it can be really hard to admit without looking weak

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I left her the other day, and now she’s telling me “I hope you feel good when I kill myself”

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This is manipulation 101. You are in an emotionally abusive relationship and you need to get out NOW! I stuck with a girl after she started pulling that shite on me and tried to “fix” her and that was a terrible idea. You cannot “fix” her. She can only fix herself. If you actually did manage to stick with her long enough for her to “fix” herself, she won’t want you when all is said and done because she’ll associate you with her previous bad state of mind and deep down blame you for it. She also won’t respect you because you caved to her emotional blackmail.

Her talk of suicide is only a cry for attention and a tactic used to control you and win arguments. Break up with her ASAP, block her number, block her from social media, and never look back. Rip that bandaid off no matter how hard it hurts. Trust me, you’re saving yourself (and her) in the long-run.