re: Maybe I look like a white supremacist?

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I find black people to, by and large, be the most pleasant and fun. Especially black woman. They like to laugh, don’t take themselves too seriously and will usually flirt with you. Not always the quickest if you’re in a hurry but seem to be more genuine than whites who have a facade of pretense which can be tough to get through.
OP, try to remember that it “isn’t about you”. They weren’t thinking about you before you showed up and I doubt they remember you now. Who knows what is going on in their lives to make them receive you with an attitude and not warmth. Maybe they did hate white people before you showed up, it doesn’t sound like you did much to change their minds.
For contrast, I make a lot of sales overtures to well educated professionals. The rudest reception I have received was from a white woman and the most genuine warmth was from a black woman. My white professional friends have been worthless helping me with contacts but the gentleman of Muslim decent ,a few doors down from me, who I barely know has been the most generous with his time. One thing I have learned as white male, we don’t “stick together”.

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I generally find all of this to be true just like you said. A white woman,in a position that deals with the flow of my paperwork..5 out of 10 times,it's going to be a problem,usually some invented shite,because she desires attention.

I am very adept at dealing with it most of the time.
I don't like pushing people,but if you leave me no other option... my time is money, I can only frick around a little bit,then it's business.