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Posted on 10/24/17 at 7:54 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
Well, that does matter quite a lot. Just pay attention to the little things she does. How honest, how upfront etc.. sounds like you've already made your decision. She knows her looks are fading fast... and you may be the nearest train.
Posted on 10/24/17 at 8:00 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
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She was 22; now 32.
This is one of many reasons why you shouldn’t let this be a big deal. If she hasn’t given you a reason to not trust her than what does it matter?
Posted on 10/24/17 at 8:15 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
For every one indiscretion that a woman is willing to tell you, there are 3-4 others that she will never disclose.
Posted on 10/24/17 at 9:08 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
People are still pretty stupid at 22, so I wouldn't give this one alot of weight if she is solid now.
The only concern would be if this is one of those "tip of the iceberg" deals where there are alot more cards that can fall out of that deck.
You could show no judgment on it whatsoever and give it a little time. Then open up more conversation about it. Make it cool to talk about and see where it leads you. You might get a glimpse of the whole picture then. Then you can make a decision on the long term possibilities with her.
This post was edited on 10/24/17 at 9:17 pm
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:28 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
Yeah I wouldn't worry about that too much.
I cheated on a gf in college on spring break. I was 21 and the girl was infinitely better looking than my gf. My gf also kinda sucked and we were just kinda together. I'd never consider cheating on my wife now or when we were dating as I've always cared for her.
Posted on 10/24/17 at 10:39 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
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Was not me with whom she cheated . She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
I wouldn't hold that against someone in their early 20s, a decade later.
Though cheating is a weird thing. Men are more angry about a woman having sex with another man. Women tend to be less upset about a one night stand, than being cheated on emotionally. I've known several that said they could deal with their man getting laid on a business trip. But if they're forming a relationship with another woman, even without sex having occurred yet, it would be more hurtfulb to them.
Posted on 10/24/17 at 11:41 pm to mostbesttigerfanever
The part that's interesting is her claim she didnt really like him (guy she cheated on) although they were together a year.
Posted on 10/25/17 at 12:41 am to mostbesttigerfanever
This girl indated once said never admit to cheating.
It only makes the cheater feel better, she was dead serious.
Kind of worried me though.
I agree with the point she made about who made feel better about coming clean but then again it speaks volumes or at least raises eyebrows that a skank could just easily keep her mouth shut and frick around.
I don't know, I think I'd rather have an honest cheater than a tight lipped one.
What y'all say?
It only makes the cheater feel better, she was dead serious.
Kind of worried me though.
I agree with the point she made about who made feel better about coming clean but then again it speaks volumes or at least raises eyebrows that a skank could just easily keep her mouth shut and frick around.
I don't know, I think I'd rather have an honest cheater than a tight lipped one.
What y'all say?
Posted on 10/25/17 at 8:18 am to mostbesttigerfanever
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She was 22; now 32....so yeah I suppose that matters
Seconding what Sampson said earlier. If she hasn't given you any reason thus far to not trust her or to be suspicious of her, then it's not really right to hold something against her that she did a decade ago. Particularly if it was well before you knew her.
I'm fairly certain that you probably did some things 10 years ago that you aren't necessarily proud of either.
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