You find out your SO cheated in a previous relationship

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she told me she did this. I

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If she told you after a few years then there's a reason she didn't tell you sooner. Kinda like a check raise, you're fricked.

75% of the time, if they cheated before, they’ll do it again.

The only hard step is the first one. After that it’s like riding a bike.

Did she tell you early on or much later? Or was she cheating with YOU during this other relationship?

Does she appear to be remorseful or did she just mention it casually?

Would she be willing to go to counseling to learn techniques to avoid a recurrence?

Many questions need to be answered on this one.

She will cheat on you baw. You dont have a magic penis. She knows that. But she may think other guys have a magic penis

Kill her. Only answer

Not enough details. Age, for one, would matter. If she were 18 at the time, I would give zero fricks. If she were 29, that’s a different story.

Also, if there is a crazy twist to this story, and YOU were the one she cheated with... then I’d bang her like the world’s ending and say bye forever afterward.

Cut her off

I'd dump her for being stupid enough to tell me that, let alone how ballsy it is. What's the point in her telling you? You'd have been fine unaware of her previous mistakes.