re: Need ideas for a Fun 2nd date

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first date,some classy restaurant,all dressed up,spend money like it doesn't mean anything,movies,whatever she wants to plan.

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This is just horrible on so many levels.


I've had the very fancy, expensive first dates. As a woman...I can say that I just felt really uncomfortable on them. Like....why is the guy spending this much money on a first date? What is he overcompensating for? If I let this expensive date continue, is he gonna expect I give him sexual favors on the first date because he spent so much money?


Also movies on the first date?? Nooooooooooooooooooo, so lame. Worst first date ever. You have no opportunity to talk with the person. And don't say "we can talk at dinner". Oh you mean the expensive dinner the chick is feeling uncomfortable with cause she is wondering if ordering a steak means he expects a blowjob at the end of the night? Yeah, no.


Whatever she wants to plan? Now you are just being lazy and making her do all the work.



OP...do NOT take dating advice from auggie