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Got a real, real lame question and don't know who else to ask

Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:25 pm
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
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Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:25 pm
WARNING: WILL BE TOO LONG FOR MOST OF YOUR ATTENTION SPANS


First the backstory. I went to HS (and college) with a girl but we've never been "friends". More so just casual acquaintances that have a few mutual friends. Last year we sat next ot each other randomly at a football game and it was probably the most interaction we've ever had in our lives. For some reason, she added me on snapchat after that (we were already friensd on facebook, probably simply because we knew each other existed in high school). We never talk/text or ANYTHING, this is the type of relationship where if you saw each other out in public you'd stop and say hello and talk for 2 minutes, but you'd never even think of inviting them to hang out.


Ok so there's that, now to my situation. She was updating her snapchat story this weekend like girls tend to do, and there was one girl that is a friend of hers that I've never seen before that is stunning. Like this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but not TOO hot in a way that she's probably a bitch. Just the right amount of being hot that makes you think she's probably still a nice person. I'm in the seinfeld-like dilemma of really wanting to somehow find out more about this girl, but what methods do I really have?

1) Inviting the girl I know to hang out under some false pretense is off the table because it would be almost painfully awkward to even initiate that. That's not the nature of our relationship, plus even if I did how would I even mention bringing that other girl along?

2) The "get right down to it" approach could be ok, but has a VERY high risk/reward factor, as well as a certain level of creepiness. "Hey, I know we don't talk a ton but that girl you were putting up pics of this weekend is really hot, mind if I got her number" doesn't really seem like much chance of success.


So I realize I'm most likely screwed here and don't have a chance, but is there some other way I'm not thinking of that I can somehow get myself an in with this other girl? I've already resigned myself to never making any progress here but figured I'd at least ask if there was something I might be missing.
Posted by td01241
Savannah
Member since Nov 2012
22897 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:27 pm to
Put Dick pics on your story and see what happens.
Posted by tigerstripedjacket
This side of the wall
Member since Sep 2011
3003 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:27 pm to
Did you start Beta Club or are you just a charter member?
This post was edited on 10/13/15 at 1:29 pm
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:27 pm to
cmon be serious
Posted by cuyahoga tiger
NE Ohio via Tangipahoa
Member since Nov 2011
5850 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:28 pm to
You are correct. Very lame.
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:29 pm to
quote:

Did you start Beta Club are just a charter member?


how am I being a beta? Oh I forgot, it's an internet term on the downswing of popularity so people who don't know how to use it will do so in attempting ot be cool.

Newsflash: I'm trying to find a way to somehow get with this girl, that's the opposite of being a beta. If I was a real beta like you I'd have just screenshotted the pics and beat off to em later. Instead I'm making an effort to actually meet her.
Posted by craigbiggio
Member since Dec 2009
31805 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:30 pm to
Stalk the friend and "randomly" bump into them out somewhere.
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
38800 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:30 pm to
Add said girl on snap chat???
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21505 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to
Calm down your number 2 answer and just inquire about her, don't say anything about being "hot" or what not.
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

Add said girl on snap chat???


brilliant, now tell me how I'd do that without knowing anything about her.
Posted by Peekaboo
Member since Apr 2015
291 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to
So you were creeping some other chick on a chicks snapchat that you barely know and you want to know how to creep her IRL?


That's not wierd.
Posted by musick
the internet
Member since Dec 2008
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Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124615 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to
Add her and tell her you think you met at a party through a mutual friend
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
35551 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to
quote:

Like this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but not TOO hot in a way that she's probably a bitch


If only someone invented a numbering system.
Posted by Phil A Sheo
equinsu ocha
Member since Aug 2011
12166 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to
option 2 is the only viable option.. that being said..I got this feeling in my gut that
A) You ain't the balls
B) You'll frick it up
C) You'll probably face stalking charges
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

Calm down your number 2 answer and just inquire about her, don't say anything about being "hot" or what not.


Ok we're getting somewhere. I just feel like when I reach out to the girl I do know, she could take it as being anywhere from uncomortable to creepy to stalkerish to cute to annoying. It's a crapshoot.

What would I even lead in with, who's your friend? Seems to simple.
Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21601 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to
quote:

I went to HS (and college) with a girl but we've never been "friends"


Not sure how much of this story is BS, but I know the statement above is, because you sound like a 12 year old!

Go straight to the girl you're after. Yeh, high risk, but who gives a frick. Whats the worst that can happen? You get turned down? So? I guarantee it won't be the last failure in your life, unless you die right after.

Grow some damn balls, boy!
Posted by BamaScoop
Panama City Beach, Florida
Member since May 2007
53894 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to
Can you tell by looking at her social media where they hang out? I would try to put myself in the same location on friday or saturday nights to casually run into them maybe out together and strike up a conversation.
Posted by Clyde Tipton
Planet Earth
Member since Dec 2007
38800 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:33 pm to
Well I don't know anything about snap chat.

I assumed like other social media, she was tagged in the picture or had a viewable profile you could click and add/invite.

Then start chatting her up to dig them guts.
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:33 pm to
quote:

So you were creeping some other chick on a chicks snapchat that you barely know and you want to know how to creep her IRL?




YOu obviously don't know how snapchat works so I guess I"ll fill you in.

When someone updates their "story" it goes out to everyone that they're friends with. About half of my friends on their update their "story" every wekeend while they're out partyign or whatever they're doing that weekned. So no I wasn't creeping on anything, she updated her story for everyone to see.
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