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Got a real, real lame question and don't know who else to ask
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:25 pm
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:25 pm
WARNING: WILL BE TOO LONG FOR MOST OF YOUR ATTENTION SPANS
First the backstory. I went to HS (and college) with a girl but we've never been "friends". More so just casual acquaintances that have a few mutual friends. Last year we sat next ot each other randomly at a football game and it was probably the most interaction we've ever had in our lives. For some reason, she added me on snapchat after that (we were already friensd on facebook, probably simply because we knew each other existed in high school). We never talk/text or ANYTHING, this is the type of relationship where if you saw each other out in public you'd stop and say hello and talk for 2 minutes, but you'd never even think of inviting them to hang out.
Ok so there's that, now to my situation. She was updating her snapchat story this weekend like girls tend to do, and there was one girl that is a friend of hers that I've never seen before that is stunning. Like this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but not TOO hot in a way that she's probably a bitch. Just the right amount of being hot that makes you think she's probably still a nice person. I'm in the seinfeld-like dilemma of really wanting to somehow find out more about this girl, but what methods do I really have?
1) Inviting the girl I know to hang out under some false pretense is off the table because it would be almost painfully awkward to even initiate that. That's not the nature of our relationship, plus even if I did how would I even mention bringing that other girl along?
2) The "get right down to it" approach could be ok, but has a VERY high risk/reward factor, as well as a certain level of creepiness. "Hey, I know we don't talk a ton but that girl you were putting up pics of this weekend is really hot, mind if I got her number" doesn't really seem like much chance of success.
So I realize I'm most likely screwed here and don't have a chance, but is there some other way I'm not thinking of that I can somehow get myself an in with this other girl? I've already resigned myself to never making any progress here but figured I'd at least ask if there was something I might be missing.
First the backstory. I went to HS (and college) with a girl but we've never been "friends". More so just casual acquaintances that have a few mutual friends. Last year we sat next ot each other randomly at a football game and it was probably the most interaction we've ever had in our lives. For some reason, she added me on snapchat after that (we were already friensd on facebook, probably simply because we knew each other existed in high school). We never talk/text or ANYTHING, this is the type of relationship where if you saw each other out in public you'd stop and say hello and talk for 2 minutes, but you'd never even think of inviting them to hang out.
Ok so there's that, now to my situation. She was updating her snapchat story this weekend like girls tend to do, and there was one girl that is a friend of hers that I've never seen before that is stunning. Like this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but not TOO hot in a way that she's probably a bitch. Just the right amount of being hot that makes you think she's probably still a nice person. I'm in the seinfeld-like dilemma of really wanting to somehow find out more about this girl, but what methods do I really have?
1) Inviting the girl I know to hang out under some false pretense is off the table because it would be almost painfully awkward to even initiate that. That's not the nature of our relationship, plus even if I did how would I even mention bringing that other girl along?
2) The "get right down to it" approach could be ok, but has a VERY high risk/reward factor, as well as a certain level of creepiness. "Hey, I know we don't talk a ton but that girl you were putting up pics of this weekend is really hot, mind if I got her number" doesn't really seem like much chance of success.
So I realize I'm most likely screwed here and don't have a chance, but is there some other way I'm not thinking of that I can somehow get myself an in with this other girl? I've already resigned myself to never making any progress here but figured I'd at least ask if there was something I might be missing.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:27 pm to NeverToYield
Put Dick pics on your story and see what happens.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:27 pm to NeverToYield
Did you start Beta Club or are you just a charter member?
This post was edited on 10/13/15 at 1:29 pm
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:28 pm to NeverToYield
You are correct. Very lame.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:29 pm to tigerstripedjacket
quote:
Did you start Beta Club are just a charter member?
how am I being a beta? Oh I forgot, it's an internet term on the downswing of popularity so people who don't know how to use it will do so in attempting ot be cool.
Newsflash: I'm trying to find a way to somehow get with this girl, that's the opposite of being a beta. If I was a real beta like you I'd have just screenshotted the pics and beat off to em later. Instead I'm making an effort to actually meet her.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:30 pm to NeverToYield
Stalk the friend and "randomly" bump into them out somewhere.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:30 pm to NeverToYield
Add said girl on snap chat???
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to NeverToYield
Calm down your number 2 answer and just inquire about her, don't say anything about being "hot" or what not.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to Clyde Tipton
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Add said girl on snap chat???
brilliant, now tell me how I'd do that without knowing anything about her.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to NeverToYield
So you were creeping some other chick on a chicks snapchat that you barely know and you want to know how to creep her IRL?
That's not wierd.
That's not wierd.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to NeverToYield
Add her and tell her you think you met at a party through a mutual friend
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:31 pm to NeverToYield
quote:
Like this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but not TOO hot in a way that she's probably a bitch
If only someone invented a numbering system.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to NeverToYield
option 2 is the only viable option.. that being said..I got this feeling in my gut that
A) You ain't the balls
B) You'll frick it up
C) You'll probably face stalking charges
A) You ain't the balls
B) You'll frick it up
C) You'll probably face stalking charges
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to jeffsdad
quote:
Calm down your number 2 answer and just inquire about her, don't say anything about being "hot" or what not.
Ok we're getting somewhere. I just feel like when I reach out to the girl I do know, she could take it as being anywhere from uncomortable to creepy to stalkerish to cute to annoying. It's a crapshoot.
What would I even lead in with, who's your friend? Seems to simple.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to NeverToYield
quote:
I went to HS (and college) with a girl but we've never been "friends"
Not sure how much of this story is BS, but I know the statement above is, because you sound like a 12 year old!
Go straight to the girl you're after. Yeh, high risk, but who gives a frick. Whats the worst that can happen? You get turned down? So? I guarantee it won't be the last failure in your life, unless you die right after.
Grow some damn balls, boy!
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:32 pm to NeverToYield
Can you tell by looking at her social media where they hang out? I would try to put myself in the same location on friday or saturday nights to casually run into them maybe out together and strike up a conversation.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:33 pm to NeverToYield
Well I don't know anything about snap chat.
I assumed like other social media, she was tagged in the picture or had a viewable profile you could click and add/invite.
Then start chatting her up to dig them guts.
I assumed like other social media, she was tagged in the picture or had a viewable profile you could click and add/invite.
Then start chatting her up to dig them guts.
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:33 pm to Peekaboo
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So you were creeping some other chick on a chicks snapchat that you barely know and you want to know how to creep her IRL?
YOu obviously don't know how snapchat works so I guess I"ll fill you in.
When someone updates their "story" it goes out to everyone that they're friends with. About half of my friends on their update their "story" every wekeend while they're out partyign or whatever they're doing that weekned. So no I wasn't creeping on anything, she updated her story for everyone to see.
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