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re: Got a real, real lame question and don't know who else to ask

Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:33 pm to
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:33 pm to
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Add her and tell her you think you met at a party through a mutual friend


once again I know nothing about her so that's not an option..
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:34 pm to
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If only someone invented a numbering system.


IRL 8.5?

OT probably 5, which is almost model-status on the OT scale
Posted by Pavoloco83
Acworth Ga. too many damn dawgs
Member since Nov 2013
15347 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:35 pm to
I thought calling somebody "beta" was the new cool way of calling somebody a phaggit. amirite?
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:35 pm to
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Go straight to the girl you're after. Yeh, high risk, but who gives a frick. Whats the worst that can happen? You get turned down? So? I guarantee it won't be the last failure in your life, unless you die right after.

Grow some damn balls, boy!


HEy gramps, not sure why you aren't getting this through your thick arse skull but all I know about this girl is what she looks like. I don't know her name or anythign else about her, so it would be impossible for me to "go after her" without somehow going through the girl I know first.

Geez.
Posted by jeffsdad
Member since Mar 2007
21348 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:35 pm to
"You mind me asking you about your friend "judi"?" keep it simple.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34929 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:36 pm to
Tell your "friend" that you contracted a fairly serious STD and your doctor says you need to inform everyone you've slept with. Say you saw the girl and are pretty sure you need to call her but don't know her number. This way it won't seem creepy.
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
32381 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:36 pm to
You're outta your league baw..
Posted by Tigerfan56
Member since May 2010
10520 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:36 pm to
Are you a serial killer?

I can't think of any non-serial killer who would ask an acquaintance who they never speak to, about a random girl on their snapchat story who they also don't know.

Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:37 pm to
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Well I don't know anything about snap chat.

I assumed like other social media, she was tagged in the picture or had a viewable profile you could click and add/invite.



Gotcha, ok you're forgiven.

Nah snapchat you send pics/videos to people you're "friends" with on there and they either instantly delte (if sent normally) or stay visible for 24 hours (if on their "story"). But you dont' tag friends or anything. Waht you see is all you get.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34929 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:37 pm to
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I thought calling somebody "beta" was the new cool way of calling somebody a phaggit. amirite?


I think we've moved on to cuck.
Posted by GFunk
Denham Springs
Member since Feb 2011
14966 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:40 pm to
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NeverToYield
quote:

Got a real, real lame question and don't know who else to ask


After reading it, man did you ever nail the title of this post.

quote:

WARNING: WILL BE TOO LONG FOR MOST OF YOUR ATTENTION SPANS


Maybe for a 19 year old that thinks in 140 characters or less, but some of us weren't medicated as children so I made it through just fine.

quote:

First the backstory. I went to HS (and college) with a girl but we've never been "friends". More so just casual acquaintances that have a few mutual friends. Last year we sat next ot each other randomly at a football game and it was probably the most interaction we've ever had in our lives. For some reason, she added me on snapchat after that (we were already friensd on facebook, probably simply because we knew each other existed in high school). We never talk/text or ANYTHING, this is the type of relationship where if you saw each other out in public you'd stop and say hello and talk for 2 minutes, but you'd never even think of inviting them to hang out.


Ok so there's that, now to my situation. She was updating her snapchat story this weekend like girls tend to do, and there was one girl that is a friend of hers that I've never seen before that is stunning. Like this girl is absolutely gorgeous, but not TOO hot in a way that she's probably a bitch. Just the right amount of being hot that makes you think she's probably still a nice person. I'm in the seinfeld-like dilemma of really wanting to somehow find out more about this girl, but what methods do I really have?

1) Inviting the girl I know to hang out under some false pretense is off the table because it would be almost painfully awkward to even initiate that. That's not the nature of our relationship, plus even if I did how would I even mention bringing that other girl along?

2) The "get right down to it" approach could be ok, but has a VERY high risk/reward factor, as well as a certain level of creepiness. "Hey, I know we don't talk a ton but that girl you were putting up pics of this weekend is really hot, mind if I got her number" doesn't really seem like much chance of success.


So I realize I'm most likely screwed here and don't have a chance, but is there some other way I'm not thinking of that I can somehow get myself an in with this other girl? I've already resigned myself to never making any progress here but figured I'd at least ask if there was something I might be missing.


This wasn't tl; I did read it, but afterwards, I have a pictorial response to all of this inane, sniveling sh!t you can't figure out on your own:

Posted by CajunSuperJeff
US military
Member since Dec 2007
588 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:40 pm to
Seriously? If Girl A included you on a dialouge/discussion then you should be friends enough in her opinion to ask her a simple question about girl B. A simple question as easy as "Hey Girl A, girl B is very beautiful. What's her story?" It obviously puts you out there as interested, but you are not directly saying anything one way or the other.

And if you ask for advice, you better be willing to come back later and let us know how it went. And I think you were being called out as a Beta for having the hots for a girl but not wanting to ask her out.
Posted by USAF Hart
My House
Member since Jun 2011
10273 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:41 pm to
Just casually ask if the girl you are interested in went to your school. There's no need to go full on creeper status or anything of that nature. If she doesn't go to your school, just say ok cool thanks. This may prompt her to ask why, and then you can say that you find her attractive and would like to know if there was anyone she was seeing. Let her open the possibility of her being the wingman.
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:42 pm to
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I think you were being called out as a Beta for having the hots for a girl but not wanting to ask her out.


Holy shite the whole got damn point of this is that I do want to ask her out but don't know anything about her other than literally a few seconds of her I saw on snapchat. Frick.

Posted by Boudreaux35
BR
Member since Sep 2007
21405 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:43 pm to
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HEy gramps, not sure why you aren't getting this through your thick arse skull but all I know about this girl is what she looks like.



OK, I guess I'm kinda in the same boat with the other guy who doesn't know the snapchat thing. Yeh, I'm old. In my day, when we spotted a lady we thgouth was interesting, we went about whatever means we could find to get her name (and number).

quote:

I don't know her name or anythign else about her, so it would be impossible for me to "go after her" without somehow going through the girl I know first.


There's your answer.

Or, I guess you could always use the 3rd grade method and have your best friend (I guess today's term would be "BFF") to ask her if she likes you.
Posted by tigerstripedjacket
This side of the wall
Member since Sep 2011
2998 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:43 pm to
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If I was a real beta like you


You asked the entire OT lounge, and de facto also asked me, for advice on women.
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:43 pm to
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USAF Hart


I'll probably do something along these lines. Not exactly but something simliar.
Posted by OysterPoBoy
City of St. George
Member since Jul 2013
34929 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:44 pm to
Don't yield baw.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164011 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:44 pm to
Andy Roddick saw his future wife in a magazine and got one of his people to call her and set up a get together. Basically your situation.

Oh wait. I forgot you're not Andy fricking Roddick.
Posted by NeverToYield
Ever to conquer!
Member since May 2014
616 posts
Posted on 10/13/15 at 1:44 pm to
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Boudreaux35


there is STILL so much incorrect about your post, but I understand being old it's hard to really visualize the nature of this app so I'll just say, "thank you for your input".
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