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People in sales: how do you disconnect

Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:23 pm
Posted by tigerbandpiccolo
Member since Oct 2005
49284 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:23 pm
This could also apply to other careers where you're constantly grinding, not just sales.

With the way technology is, how do you truly disconnect? I love my job, company, customers. But I just feel exhausted and am having trouble ridding myself of dread for each work day. Has nothing to do with who/what I'm doing that day, but more about just not wanna'ing.

Besides vacation, what do my old folk experts recommend.
Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
36377 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:25 pm to
OOOR
Posted by Paul Allen
Montauk, NY
Member since Nov 2007
75269 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:26 pm to
Fireball
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56106 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:26 pm to
I am not in sales, but I have been feeling the same thing...first time in my career that I feel this way, but I actually go to bed dreading waking up the next day...

I didn't take much time off for the holidays and I can really see a big difference in how fast I am burning out this year...
Posted by SlowFlowPro
Simple Solutions to Complex Probs
Member since Jan 2004
423384 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:29 pm to
win salesman of the year and THEN you get all upitty
Posted by Jawja_Joe
Member since Sep 2014
1386 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:29 pm to
In sales and I'm always working bro, no disconnect. I don't mind and the money is great!
Posted by squidbait
Louisiana
Member since Jul 2013
58 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:31 pm to
Play the piccolo?
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
56495 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:32 pm to
Most will disagree, but after many, many years of quotas, emails, cells, texts......you can't shake the feeling you have. This is my first year on a base plus bonus comp plan and I can finally see how some reps relax. I have always been 100 percent comm, I loved the uncapp d income, this new deal is lame, but relaxing.

I haven't taken four weeks of real, can't reach me, vacations in 10 years. Don't do that
Posted by Kafka
I am the moral conscience of TD
Member since Jul 2007
142485 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:33 pm to
I have nothing useful or even relevant to add but I just wanted to say hey picc
Posted by MrLarson
Member since Oct 2014
34984 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:34 pm to
In sales: you don't get to disconnect. Unless you own your own rep group.

Get use to it. Its how it is.

You didn't explain what you needed to disconnect from.
Posted by fisherbm1112
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2010
6567 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:38 pm to
I shoot sporting clays and fish a couple afternoons a week and play some Rec sports. I usually feel extremely refreshed out of any of these. I also go to LSU sporting events. During none of these do I actually disconnect from my phone though.
Posted by dcrews
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2011
30223 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:39 pm to
quote:

am having trouble ridding myself of dread for each work day


Sounds like you aren't happy doing what you're doing. I'd be willing to be it has nothing to do with being connected all the time either.

I personally work in "inside sales", so outside of being on call for after hours bs every so often, I am done with work once I leave the office. And I love it.

I see how some of our company's account managers / outside salesmen are constantly connected and how tiresome it can be. I have no desire to do that. Sure they make more than I do, but to me, my quality of life and not having to worry about work past 5-6 PM (or on weekends) is more important.

Work to live.
This post was edited on 3/15/15 at 8:41 pm
Posted by Mizzoufan26
Vacaville CA
Member since Sep 2012
17266 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:45 pm to
quote:

tigerbandpiccolo



I would love an answer.

Military here, just moved back to the states from Hawaii, have 30k less in our bank accounts per year because of that. Sole NCO in a 70 person flight, and have all the responsibilities that come with that primarily on me and my 2 officers along with 7 fresh airmen I am trying to set on the right foot along with all the other bullshite that come along with being a good NCO.

Have been burnt out on it for a while.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56106 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:50 pm to
unfortunately, I am a creature of habit and even my weekends or days off follow a certain pattern...unfortunately, that means that even my weekends just add to the monotony of life.

I actually traveled to my hometown (which I believe is the same as yours) this weekend and spent some time with family members....I am thinking that I may need to go there for a 4-day weekend and just clean some fencrows or something like that while the weather is decent...
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30515 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:53 pm to
I've had customers in Dallas call me while I was sitting in Tiger Stadium watching LSU beat Arkansas during one of those day after Thanksgiving games. I sold print advertising. The customer wanted me to check the paper to make sure their ad made it because his phone wasn't ringing like it normally would when we ran his ads.

Had to call a co-worker & get them to assist. Develop friendships with other conscientious salespeople within your company. You need someone you know you can depend on that will treat your clients as well as they'd treat their own.

Working for a weekly publication, I would have never been able to take a vacation without someone I could trust helping while I was gone. I had people that had to be seen, called or emailed every week.

I always did the same for the coworker when they were out.

In a emergency situation having a great manager that was willing to deal with your clients helps a lot too. My old boss was the kind of guy that would go see or talk on the phone with a client to take care of situations that arose.

Hell, my last boss filled out every salesperson on our team's weekly reports for us. The manager on the other side of the office harassed her people until they stopped down & took the time to do them for her every week. We were out selling while they we in the office filling out reports. My boss knew where his bread was buttered.
This post was edited on 3/15/15 at 9:05 pm
Posted by Navytiger74
Member since Oct 2009
50458 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:54 pm to
quote:

I love my job


quote:

am having trouble ridding myself of dread for each work day




For the record, lots of us hate our jobs.
Posted by LeonPhelps
Member since May 2008
8185 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 8:57 pm to
I'm not in sales, but I certainly have grinded in every job ever. I can absolutely relate. I've tried different things. I have been passionate about every job at the beginning but sort of got bored and left for the next challenge. Now I understand it is about feeling like I am still challenging myself, still working toward a goal. Without that, then it is senseless grinding and just feels like a prison. Daily, weekly, monthly, and annual goals are a huge benefit in making it less monotonous.

Also, I find it is very important to take personal time to recharge. It is important to have it planned out in advance and on a regular basis so you know when it is coming. I make sure that 1 day a week is entirely for me - usually on Saturday. No work allowed that day, just quality time doing whatever.

Also, studies show that multiple 3 day weekends do a lot more to recharge you then a big week long or two week vacation. So every once in a while, I'll take a 3 day weekend. I have not taken more than 1 weekday off in years, but the multiple 3 day weekends work wonders.

So that is my suggestion after having been doing this for a decade. Always feel like you are working toward a goal, make sure to schedule personal time in advance so you know it is coming, and take multiple 3 day weekends throughout the year rather than one big vacation.
Posted by Hammertime
Will trade dowsing rod for titties
Member since Jan 2012
43030 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 9:00 pm to
Get a job that you like
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98335 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 9:02 pm to
You're never gonna win a Cadillac El Dorado with that attitude.
Posted by Monk
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2007
3660 posts
Posted on 3/15/15 at 9:08 pm to
Video games were a nice escape.
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