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Am I being unreasonable in this situation? ETA: there's a catch in the OP
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:47 pm
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:47 pm
So my girlfriend and I are moving in together next month in a new city. Well, 2 of her friends want to come visit her and found some concert in the new city to attend. Well they go ahead and buy tickets to the concert, which I find out after the fact that it is February 14th. I tell the girlfriend that I will be in Louisiana for mardi gras that weekend with my family and friends and would like her to be with me. She says that she wants to come and spend time with my family and friends also.
Now, the girlfriend asks if it's acceptable for her to let her friends, whom I've never met before, stay in our home while were in Louisiana for mardi gras.
I automatically tell her that I'm sorry but no and that hotels are abundant and very reasonably priced. She says she's been knowing them for years and the works, but I still say no. I don't want to bother with the off chance of something happening in my home when I'm in another state.
Am I being unreasonable?
Catch: would your decision in this thread change if you discovered the two friends are flaming homosexual boyfriends?
Now, the girlfriend asks if it's acceptable for her to let her friends, whom I've never met before, stay in our home while were in Louisiana for mardi gras.
I automatically tell her that I'm sorry but no and that hotels are abundant and very reasonably priced. She says she's been knowing them for years and the works, but I still say no. I don't want to bother with the off chance of something happening in my home when I'm in another state.
Am I being unreasonable?
Catch: would your decision in this thread change if you discovered the two friends are flaming homosexual boyfriends?
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 6:55 pm
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Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:48 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
Am I being unreasonable?
No.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:48 pm to TigerHam85
That's not entirely unreasonable but considering that it is a few months away, you do have the opportunity to meet/interact with them.
also foursome lulz
also foursome lulz
This post was edited on 11/12/14 at 5:49 pm
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:48 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
Am I being unreasonable?
yea, just let the hoes stay at ya'lls place
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:49 pm to TigerHam85
I probably wouldn't mind honestly.
nb4picsoffriends
nb4picsoffriends
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:49 pm to TigerHam85
You are 100% in the right. You have to set the riles now or forever deal with BS.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:49 pm to TigerHam85
quote:
Am I being unreasonable in this situation?
quote:
So my girlfriend and I are moving in together next month in a new city
Yes. Stupid move
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:49 pm to TigerHam85
Nope....... but February is shitty time to visit LA, the weather is shitty and its crowded. Stay in HA, let them sleep and see if you can get a 4some
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:50 pm to TigerHam85
are you paying rent/mortgage or are y'all splitting? if it's 100% you, then those friends can frick off.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:50 pm to TigerHam85
i guess it depends on how long and how old they are.
Im not a teenager anymore, so id be fine with trusting someone that myself or my SO would deem responsible.
Im not a teenager anymore, so id be fine with trusting someone that myself or my SO would deem responsible.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:50 pm to TigerHam85
You are in the right, but you will be fighting on the end of losing battle. Your girl will not let this go...Good luck
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:50 pm to TigerHam85
You should have said of course.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:53 pm to TigerHam85
I would probably let them stay. If your girl thinks that highly of them, they are probably good people.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:53 pm to TigerHam85
Let them stay there, just put a nanny cam in the bedroom.... 
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:55 pm to TigerHam85
Stick to your guns. You are being reasonable.
Also, pics?
Also, pics?
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:57 pm to TigerHam85
Not asking for a BJ before answering is what is unreasonable.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:57 pm to TigerHam85
No
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:57 pm to TigerHam85
They are going to have a threesome in your bed with some rando.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 5:58 pm to TigerHam85
Usually I'm pretty uptight about things, and I'm certainly not a spontaneous, fly by the seat of my pants kinda person..but I don't see what the big deal is?
These aren't strangers, they're close friends with your SO that she's known for years. And it's not like they're staying there for weeks while they're trying to find a new place..it's just for a weekend while yall are gone. Might not be a bad idea to have a presence there anyway so it doesn't look like yall are gone.
I mean I certainly understand where you're coming from, absolutely. I guess I just don't see what the huge deal would be with allowing it.
These aren't strangers, they're close friends with your SO that she's known for years. And it's not like they're staying there for weeks while they're trying to find a new place..it's just for a weekend while yall are gone. Might not be a bad idea to have a presence there anyway so it doesn't look like yall are gone.
I mean I certainly understand where you're coming from, absolutely. I guess I just don't see what the huge deal would be with allowing it.
Posted on 11/12/14 at 6:12 pm to TigerHam85
I agree with you, but then again I'm weird about people being in my house when I'm not there.
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