re: What is the best software for a kids phone to know their location.

Yeah, that's why I am more for situational appropriate on how to handle the limitations. I was a pretty addicted gamer, but I wouldn't whine or throw a fit if my parents took it away and was the same way with the internet. Was dialing up local BBS on a 9600 before we had an ISP. Took a lot of shite for calling one long distance.

Seen kids that are fine without tech and handle themselves well and there are those on the opposite end that pitch a massive fit if you take it away for 2 seconds.

Plenty of ways to raise a responsible child, both low tech and high tech. If she is anything like her mom, I won't have to worry about too much.