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Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:56 am to
Posted by SwaggerCopter
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Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:56 am to
Yes. It's perfectly normal. Just because you make a commitment to someone doesn't mean you suddenly don't find other women attractive. And it is very possible that you and this other woman are even more compatible than you and your wife, but good over it. Marriage is a commitment. Love is a choice, not a feeling.
Posted by JawjaTigah
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Posted on 8/26/14 at 1:23 pm to
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over it. Marriage is a commitment. Love is a choice, not a feeling.
Stay as far apart from and as uninvolved with the object of your crush as you can. Focus on your wife, you life together, the things about her that attract you. The things about her that you love. Do things with her that are fun. Try to imagine how empty life would be if you did not have your wife to wake up next to every day. All the while, walk away from any thoughts about that other one. And don't be alone with her. If you're really brave, tell your wife about some of these feelings and how shocked you are by them. She might surprise you and let you in on some of her own stuff. That can only make you stronger.
This post was edited on 8/26/14 at 1:24 pm
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