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Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:53 am
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:53 am
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Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:54 am to CAT
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just suck as a human
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:54 am to CAT
You answered your own question.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:54 am to CAT
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Never would act on it in a million years but just wondering
Then why tell us all this shite? For shits and grins?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:54 am to CAT
quote:J-Law is my other.
you could have a crush on another but still love your wife the same.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:54 am to CAT
Get her to send some nudes.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:55 am to CAT
Having the crush doesn't make you a piece of shite. Acting on it would. You are human and it's not natural to only be attracted to one person in the entire world.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:55 am to CAT
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The other part is fairly certain the other woman feels the same, and yes she's married.
Never would act on it in a million years
Report back in 2 years after your wife divorces you and takes everything
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:55 am to CAT
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Never would act on it in a million years but just wondering is this common or do I just suck as a human?
Dude. frick that bitch a LOT. and never admit it.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:56 am to CAT
Harmless and natural. What is not harmless is if you act on it even slightly...meaning conversations about said crush.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:56 am to CAT
You want approval-no?
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:56 am to CAT
Yes. It's perfectly normal. Just because you make a commitment to someone doesn't mean you suddenly don't find other women attractive. And it is very possible that you and this other woman are even more compatible than you and your wife, but good over it. Marriage is a commitment. Love is a choice, not a feeling.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:57 am to CAT
If you want a real answer, I think attraction to other women is normal and not a reflection of you. Even if it gets to be a pretty serious attraction, still not something you can really help.
But, if it is growing because you're not taking steps to avoid that situation, then you're a shitty person. If you work with someone and develop a crush and don't foster or act on it, fine. But I've found (not married, but in relationships), that usually those things are fleeting, especially if I don't put any effort into them.
But, if it is growing because you're not taking steps to avoid that situation, then you're a shitty person. If you work with someone and develop a crush and don't foster or act on it, fine. But I've found (not married, but in relationships), that usually those things are fleeting, especially if I don't put any effort into them.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:58 am to CAT
80-20 rule man
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:58 am to CAT
I'm not married but I don't see anything wrong with it. You can't shut off your emotions just because you put on a ring. To try and deny that you're human and you're always going to be attracted to other women makes things worse IMO. Those crushes come and go, no harm done with having a crush.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:58 am to CAT
you will start a thread asking about good divorce lawyers here in another month. no sweat.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 11:59 am to CAT
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Never would act on it in a million years
You're posting here so you can be talked in to it.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 12:00 pm to CAT
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Never would act on it in a million years
Careful... I have said this. before...
Posted on 8/26/14 at 12:01 pm to CAT
Congratulations. You're human.
Posted on 8/26/14 at 12:02 pm to CAT
I think the more appropriate way to look at it would be:
sometimes.
hold your thoughts captive, a wise old man told me once.
quote:
just sucks to be human
sometimes.
hold your thoughts captive, a wise old man told me once.
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