re: Alternate Focus: you have no relationship with your dad and no plans to see him

I have a great husband who is step dad to my kids and also has a son. My ex husband is also a good father. My husband stepson and I had brunch and we gave him gifts this morning. I went and purchased the gift my kids picked out for their dad and they are having dinner with him tonight. But I will not be see in my own father today nor putting pics of him with an homage on fb.