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re: when have you been friend-zoned?

Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:52 am to
Posted by abellsujr
New England
Member since Apr 2014
35268 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:52 am to
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1st date and no sex? 2nd date and no sex? anything after? thoughts?
Not even a kiss yet? Time to kick that bitch to the curb.
Posted by fnchdrms87
Fairfax Station, VA
Member since Jun 2010
893 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:56 am to
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Possibly she has morals, or maybe you aren't as charming as you think.


probably one or both of those are true. at the end of the day, I want to sleep with her so I should probably make that clear. We've known each other in a professional sense for close to 3 years now. I've actually never really considered her an option until she dropped some weight recently after she joined the army. I guess this would be a case of me initially "friend-zoning" her and then realizing after she dropped some weight that I wanted to sleep with her.
This post was edited on 5/17/14 at 1:58 am
Posted by abellsujr
New England
Member since Apr 2014
35268 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:58 am to
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never really really considered her an option until she dropped some weight recently after she joined the army.
You don't deserve her. Look elsewhere.
Posted by The Boat
Member since Oct 2008
164137 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:58 am to
I didn't think people in the friend zone ever had an opportunity to go on dates before entering said zone. But I'm not a friend zone expert.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:59 am to
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We've known each other in a professional sense for close to 3 years now.


Oh this will work great for you.

quote:

I've actually never really really considered her an option until she dropped some weight recently

Probably realizes this and is just milking the attention with no intention.

Not friendzoned, just never gonna happen zoned.
Posted by fnchdrms87
Fairfax Station, VA
Member since Jun 2010
893 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 2:00 am to
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You don't deserve her. Look elsewhere.


welp. I'm here. She's here, and the sexual tension is there...except never actually acted on it. Ya...relationships are tough.
Posted by fightin tigers
Downtown Prairieville
Member since Mar 2008
73681 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 2:01 am to
quote:

relationships are tough.


This is no relationship
Posted by Harry Caray
Denial
Member since Aug 2009
18648 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 2:01 am to
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I want to sleep with her so I should probably make that clear. We've known each other in a professional sense for close to 3 years now. I've actually never really considered her an option until she dropped some weight recently after she joined the army.

and she already has a boyfriend. you sound like a stand up guy.
Posted by abellsujr
New England
Member since Apr 2014
35268 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 2:04 am to
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the sexual tension is there
Clearly there is no sexual tension or you would've had sex. She frickin wit you.
Posted by fnchdrms87
Fairfax Station, VA
Member since Jun 2010
893 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 2:05 am to
<3 the OT setting me straight
Posted by lsutigernosaint
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2007
3935 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 12:49 pm to
Just going off my experience here, but i believe its after youre married and have a baby ....
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:14 pm to
Since the divorce almost eight years ago, I can think of getting FZed twice. I give a lot of rope in that if there is no intimacy by the fourth date I move on. So compared to the number of scores, twice is not a bad record.

Particularly telling is that the two who FZed me are still sitting home by themselves a couple of years later. Evidently, everyone else is on to them as well.
Posted by constant cough
Lafayette
Member since Jun 2007
44788 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:18 pm to
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when have you been friend-zoned?



If you have to ask then you've already been friend zoned.
Posted by Goldrush25
San Diego, CA
Member since Oct 2012
33794 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 1:23 pm to
Someone mentioned long phone conversations when you haven't even been on a date yet. That made me cringe because that was me 10 years ago before I knew better.

If you've been on a date you're probably not in the friend zone. There's probably just no chemistry which is just as bad.
This post was edited on 5/17/14 at 1:26 pm
Posted by damnedoldtigah
Middle of Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
4275 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 3:49 pm to
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Just going off my experience here, but i believe its after youre married and have a baby ....


There's a lot of truth to that. In my case it was after kid#2. Finally divorced her.
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103065 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 3:55 pm to
I have never had and will never have a female friend.
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112327 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 3:57 pm to
You're friend zoned right after you go on a date with her and you don't make a move

I don't care if she sees her best friend die on your date. Make a fricking move.
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5151 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:00 pm to
Isn't secks before the third date whorish?
Posted by weagle99
Member since Nov 2011
35893 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:03 pm to
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and she already has a boyfriend. you sound like a stand up guy.



Dating ain't married.
Posted by BabyrayS2k
Member since Nov 2012
778 posts
Posted on 5/17/14 at 4:07 pm to
No sex by date 3 and it's time to move on.

By the way, who is paying for these "dates"?
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