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Married men: after how many years do you stop buying gift for Valentine's Day

Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:06 pm
Posted by hikingfan
Member since Jun 2013
1660 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:06 pm
..for your wife? Does she not care anymore after a certain number of years?
Posted by reddman
Member since Jul 2005
78187 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:06 pm to
Mine has never cared.

Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:07 pm to
My dad bought for my mom throughout their marriage. 35 years
Posted by ryan985
Member since Nov 2011
1796 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:07 pm to
We have never really done Valentines. We both think its crazy. Plus my birthday is always a week before Valentines so we just go all out for that.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63566 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:08 pm to
However many it takes for both you and your wife to realize what an artificial day Valentine's is.
This post was edited on 2/14/14 at 6:08 pm
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
261782 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:08 pm to
Mine don't give a shite. I'll surprise her with something on a day when it's not expected.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98381 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:08 pm to
I look forward to buying a gift for my sweetie when we're in our nineties.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
56123 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:09 pm to
based on my experience, I am not sure I would ever even try not buying a gift for valentines day again...
Posted by hobbs4lsu
allover
Member since Jun 2008
82 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:09 pm to
'Til death do us part
Posted by tgrbaitn08
Member since Dec 2007
146214 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:10 pm to
after a few years (5)they may say they dont care and they probably wont if you dont buy them anything but if you do, then you get extra brownie points.

My wife doesnt expect anything and nor do I, but it's nice when we surprise each other.


FWIW, I've been married 12 years and we still get each other a little something every year.
Posted by Mr.Perfect
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2013
17438 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:10 pm to
Married less than a year. Just getting her a card. Starting off with low expectations
Posted by VetteGuy
Member since Feb 2008
28364 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:12 pm to
I have a service that will continue to,purchase gifts for her after I'm dead.

Answer your question?
Posted by JAXTiger16
TBD
Member since Apr 2013
2228 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:12 pm to
Never because my anniversary is on valentines
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35528 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:13 pm to
We normally just stay home and have steak and shrimp. I'll buy flowers every few years if the mood strikes, but she doesn't care if I don't.
Posted by Mr Fusion
The American Dream City
Member since Dec 2010
7457 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:15 pm to
I just got a text from my dad with a picture of the new car he bought her today, a red Volvo. 34 years.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37349 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:18 pm to
I didn't buy a material item this year. Our only child's first birthday was yesterday. I got a new truck yesterday for his birthday. We are going out to eat tonight and a family trip to the zoo tomorrow. I paid for supper last night that included the in laws and hibachi that the birthday boy threw around the restaurant.

I'm currently looking around for my gift but haven't come across it yet.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129045 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:24 pm to
How many years in your marriage do you want to still have sex?



Yes Valentine's Day is over commercialized, we get that. Yes you should be doing nice things for her all the time and not just on Vday...we get that. However....Valentines day is just another opportunity to show your wife you still are happy you chose her out of alllll the women on this earth to spend your life with. You don't have to buy expensive gifts or go all out, but you should take a moment and at least buy a card or show some small token of your affection and love to her. That's what a married woman wants.....she wants to know she still means something to you after all this time.
This post was edited on 2/14/14 at 6:26 pm
Posted by KingRanch
The Ranch
Member since Mar 2012
61616 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:26 pm to
she got nothing
Posted by ApexTiger
cary nc
Member since Oct 2003
53785 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:27 pm to
quote:

Married men: after how many years do you stop buying gift for Valentine's Day
..for your wife? Does she not care anymore after a certain number of years?


She told me this morning:

"Aren't you glad I am not high maintenance?"

We write cards to each other..but we mainly focus on the kids..
Posted by NorthshoreTiger76
Pelicans, Saints, & LSU Fan
Member since May 2009
80224 posts
Posted on 2/14/14 at 6:32 pm to
My wife just said never
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