re: Marriage/Couples Counseling help

Most counselors that are worth a crap are not going to play sides. They will be objective. I think all married couples should go to proactive counseling every few years. It never hurts to have an outsider look into your marriage and see how it can be better. Counseling does help imo, but both parties must be open to it and be able to lay your pride down at the door before doing it.