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Godfather1
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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if he has a $380K piece of property he has the means of acquiring $200K.


Not necessarily. Especially if he inherited it.

My BIL and his brother own a beachfront condo that they inherited. Because the brother and his wife are spendthrifts who live way beyond their means, they are being forced to sell it, since my BIL (who I think would like to keep it) doesn't have the necessary funds to buy his brother out.






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Chef Leppard
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


Yeah. Its just fricking unbelievably difficult to think that to avoid repercussions from stealing, shes basically going to steal from me and avoid any consequences whatsoever

to finance her living like a Hilton for a couple years basically

Idk. Ill know by the end of the week for sure






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cfish140
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


I got in trouble for posting the details of my DUI arrest back in 08 on the OT...so you're probably definately going to get in some shite for this





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White Roach
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


The OP is back in the thread, so perhaps he can clarify, but if this woman is so leveraged that she's embezzling, I'm willing to bet she's already mortgaged the inherited property.

Also, has it occurred to you that even if the property is unencumbered AND the sister transfers it to her brother, he may not have the capacity to repay the $200,000 loan? He may not even qualify because of existing
financial obligations or his income level. Not as simple as you make it sound...






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Godfather1
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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Yeah. Its just fricking unbelievably difficult to think that to avoid repercussions from stealing, shes basically going to steal from me and avoid any consequences whatsoever


She's not avoiding all consequences.

Unless she's a totally soulless individual, she'll never be able to look you in the eye again. Her relationship with you, her own blood, is forever altered. She's lost your trust, likely forever.

Personally, I'd take the jail time over facing consequences like that with my family.






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Dandy Lion
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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he borrows $200K against it ,
IN THIS MARKET?

Do you really think he'll get that, at a respectable rate of interest, for a property valued at 380K in a healthy market?



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biglego
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


Screw that. At least in Louisiana that's a serious felony and she could do some real prison time. I'd let my sister do it. I'd also have her acknowledge the debt to me and have it civilly binding. Probably wont ever get it back but I wouldn't let my sister, thief or not, go to prison.





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Godfather1
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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but I wouldn't let my sister, thief or not, go to prison.


I stated earlier in the thread that this would be my position, also, if in the OP's shoes.

However, if in the sister's shoes, I'd man up and accept society's consequences rather than screw over my own flesh and blood.






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moneyg
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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Idk. I guess because she was able to make sense up till now of stealing from her employer rather than look me in the face and take what we both know is mine

Apparently living alongside her bunch of yuppie friends and living a lie was worth risking prison for



What is her plan for this? Is she asking you to go along with this and then promising repayment over time? Is should asking you to go along with this without promising repayment?

What has she done since this became known to give you confidence that she will do whatever it takes to make you whole again...should you agree to help her out?






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stout
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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Also, has it occurred to you that even if the property is unencumbered AND the sister transfers it to her brother, he may not have the capacity to repay the $200,000 loan? He may not even qualify because of existing
financial obligations or his income level. Not as simple as you make it sound...




BTHog has shown how truly ignorant he is in this thread.

Dude needs to stick to changing out brake pads instead of giving out financial, real estate, and legal advice.






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Tittle'sPants
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


how did you deed her the property? what was the interest you gave her in it?





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Carson123987
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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dude, if this thread wasn't bull shite the OP would just write the sister a check for $200K for her half of the property in question and wash his hand of it.


you are STILL acting like this is no big deal?






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dagrippa
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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dude, if this thread wasn't bull shite the OP would just write the sister a check for $200K for her half of the property in question and wash his hand of it.


I'm not saying it isn't BS but what you said is certainly BS. I own property outright valued at more than his but couldn't just trip down and cut a check for 200grand with no problem.






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CtotheVrzrbck
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


Chef are you on Dr. Phil right now?



Dude's girlfriend stole nearly $500K to fund a failing business. Guess the show is all about how to deal with it and what the couple is going to do going forward. She stole $167k from the guy's mom, and siphoned off from his accounts to prop up her lifestyle.


Thinking about it overnight and how much I dislike my own family, I don't think she's going to learn a thing and they won't be changing their lifestyle so there will be more issues in a few years.






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VetteGuy
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


Man, I feel for you.

I hate it about your property, but if anything, maybe it will keep her out of jail. It dosen't sound like she was always a bad sister to you or that she has always been a thief.

Good luck.






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BTHog
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


Yes I believe even today he could get a loan for 50% of lands value.

I have no idea if he could afford such a loan or not. Just pointing out that that would be the best way for him to keep the property whole and help his sister.







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St Augustine
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


From a saints fan that you probably don't like...I'm truly sorry to hear this bro. Best of luck. Family can absolutely suck sometimes.


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shoelessjoe
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


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I don't believe inheritances are considered part of marital property


This.






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shoelessjoe
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


To be honest his lawyer should have let Chef know if he needed to put property in his sisters name to keep it from his ex-wife. If he did this not knowing if he needed he may have fricked himself.





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yellowfin
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re: Found out my sister embezzled 200k from her employer


She may not go to jail, friend of mine stole 100k from a governmental entity he was working for and never did a day





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