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AngryBeavers
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There is a huge difference between him making the decision to pay for kids that aren't his and the legal system forcing him to.


Yeah he's being forced to pay his slut ex wife the money isn't going to the kids directly. I'd be fighting for full custody on grounds that she is an unfit mother.






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Iona Fan Man
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Yeah he's being forced to pay his slut ex wife the money isn't going to the kids directly


which always has bothered me. The mother uses that money to pay for a mortgage on her house, she keeps the house when the kids are 18, the kids get no equity stake.

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I'd be fighting for full custody on grounds that she is an unfit mother.


never win if not biological






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sweetbobber
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Yeah he's being forced to pay his slut ex wife the money isn't going to the kids directly. I'd be fighting for full custody on grounds that she is an unfit mother.


This.

But he will never get full custody. The absolute best any man can dream of is 50% custody, unless there is smoking gun evidence of the mother being a direct threat to the childrens health...and I mean it has to be a direct threat to their life/health. The justice system is so screwed up when it comes to marriages and children. People need to understand that a marriage is a business contract and they need to treat it as such. Most poor saps just don't realize that until it's too late and half their shite is gone and they're paying their ex a huge sum of money.






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be fighting for full custody on grounds that she is an unfit mother.


With 4 kids for 4 different dudes while married, it should be a no brainer that she is an unfit mother.
Unfortunatly the system doesn't work this way.






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emcee422
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If he thought his they were his kids for 12, 14, and 16 years, then he's a pos for not supporting them


True, but he shouldn't be legally responsible. If he wants to abandon them financially after a shock like that then thats his perogative.






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But he will never get full custody. The absolute best any man can dream of is 50%
Bull shite. I know 3 guys who have full custody of their kids.






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BTHog
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not a unique story, just showing that this just doesn't happen in the US. Men are not protected in the western world.



I don't know how I feel about this to be honest. Who gives a shite who the sperm donor was, this dude was those kids' dad for years.

Maybe no fair to make him pay child support, on the other hand pretty shitty of him to punish the kids for what his wife did






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Tigah in the ATL
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Men are not protected in the western world.

you're shitty at being a man if you think this is true.






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Tigah in the ATL
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Men are at the bottom of the totem pole. Especially white men (no racism, just an observation).







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Newbomb Turk
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pretty shitty of him to punish the kids for what his wife did


Why don't you pay the child support?

Pretty shitty of you not to stand up and pay for these kids that aren't yours.

Oh, wait, that's right -- THEY'RE NOT HIS EITHER.

Idiot.






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dewster
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Maybe no fair to make him pay child support, on the other hand pretty shitty of him to punish the kids for what his wife did


The courts making this compulsory is what I think the posters here are outraged about.






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BTHog
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Why don't you pay the child support?

Pretty shitty of you not to stand up and pay for these kids that aren't yours.

Oh, wait, that's right -- THEY'RE NOT HIS EITHER.

Idiot.


As a matter of fact, I DID raise another man's child. Not one my wife had either.

Why don't I pay the child support? What a stupid comparison, I'm not the one who these kids called dad for years am I?

If you want to have a discussion about whether the courts should do a better job of making sure that child support collected actually goes TO the children, I don't disagree with you; I'm just on the fence about a guy who suddenly out of the blue questions whether the kids are his after being their father for years having to pay child support.

Personally I'd hire a lawyer and sue for custody. The courts have already accepted that he has grounds to do so or else noway they could require him to pay child support.






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dewster
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Men are at the bottom of the totem pole. Especially white men (no racism, just an observation).


In a general sense, this is true only if they are under 50 and straight. Obviously neither of these would be relevant for the purposes of this particular discussion.

As far as divorces, the women are usually favored in custody battles all over the western world.



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Mung
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Yup, in La the husband of the mother is presumed to be the father of her children. Called "the strongest presumption under the law". Ultimately the State decides that having someone support the children is more important than the occcaisional terrible situation like in the OP.

You do have an out if you can prove the wife hoodwinked you, but really hard to disavow these kids you have created a paternal bond with.






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Mung
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unfit mother


sadly, the fact that mom is a whore will not affect a custody determination, unless she whores around in front of the kids.

On the plus side, these kids now have multiple "legal" dads, and if you can get mom to give up their names, whoever ultimately gets custody can get child support from all of them, once paternity is proven.






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uway
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He should have to support the children. He should have kept his wife in line, but he didn't, and that's not be kids fault.
I'm not talking leglally, I personally would feel a responsibility to those children. I understand feeling "broken" about finding out their not yours, but you got to man up. The love he had for the children before he found out shouldn't just go away.






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WITNESS23
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That women deserves an axe to the the head





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BTHog
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He should have to support the children. He should have kept his wife in line, but he didn't, and that's not be kids fault.
I'm not talking leglally, I personally would feel a responsibility to those children. I understand feeling "broken" about finding out their not yours, but you got to man up. The love he had for the children before he found out shouldn't just go away.


This is how I feel about it as well.

When I caught my first wife cheating and gave her the boot I considered a DNA test to make sure my kid who was then 2 was mine but ultimately decided I didn't care, he was my son at that point whether DNA said so or not. 19 years later there is no doubt he's my kid, now perhaps I just got lucky in that regard, but either way he was and is my son.






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BR Tiger
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His daughters are aged 12, 14, and 16, and his son is nine. DNA testing revealed the son is his only biological child. To make matters worse, his ex-wife told him his three daughters were all fathered by different men, he said.


Canadians....smh






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