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DollaChoppa  North Carolina St. Fan LSU Alumnus. NC State Grad Student. Member since May 2008 70564 posts
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| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 7:31 pm to FootballNostradamus)
Yea. one of my chick friends has some serious hair on her face/neck that doesnt help at all. She already isnt very good looking. It's like, come on, do you even try to look decent? This is why you never get any guys.
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lurkr  LSU Fan Estrogenville Member since Jan 2008 8425 posts

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Tell her she is fat, she won't care about you asking her to shave. Win Win
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shiftworker  Army Fan LP Member since Dec 2011 2091 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 7:40 pm to lurkr)
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Tell her she is fat, she won't care about you asking her to shave. Win Win
lurkr for the win! How's it going? 
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Darla Hood  LA-Lafayette Fan Near that place by that other place Member since Aug 2012 2908 posts

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Get her a new make up mirror that has 10X magnification. I got one with 8X and my first thought was, "Please God, let no one have this kind of vision!"
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Darla Hood  LA-Lafayette Fan Near that place by that other place Member since Aug 2012 2908 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 7:45 pm to Hugo Stiglitz)
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I find openness and directness to be the most effective way of resolving issues in relationships. Otherwise it festers. I would hope my SO would be just as open with me in a similar situation, out of respect.
Sometimes a person just needs to be told something. And sometimes only once. I have been eventually grateful for a comment like, "Go color your gray. Now." Or, "Women over a certain age shouldn't wear their hair long, you know." That's all it took.
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lurkr  LSU Fan Estrogenville Member since Jan 2008 8425 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 7:47 pm to shiftworker)
Just trying to survive. Eating ice cream, watching basketball.
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shiftworker  Army Fan LP Member since Dec 2011 2091 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 7:50 pm to lurkr)
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Just trying to survive
That's a good plan.
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Eating ice cream, watching basketball
I am now jealous. Who you watching?
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lurkr  LSU Fan Estrogenville Member since Jan 2008 8425 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 7:58 pm to shiftworker)
Started LSU/MSU then KU/ATM, now indiana/mich coming on.
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shiftworker  Army Fan LP Member since Dec 2011 2091 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 8:02 pm to lurkr)
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LSU/MSU
Did you see the end of this game? Hickey!!!! 
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lurkr  LSU Fan Estrogenville Member since Jan 2008 8425 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 8:05 pm to shiftworker)
Hickey is the shite.
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TxTiger82  LSU Fan Madison, WI Member since Sep 2004 21633 posts

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How do you go about telling your female SO or a close female friend about getting rid of their slightly noticeable(quite noticeable) facial hair?
Its probably a bad idea to tell her this type of thing. If you tell her something like that, she'll think that you aren't attracted to her. She'll either dump you within the week, or you'll ding her confidence enough to cause her to become needy and clingy. This will, of course, cause you to become even less attracted to her and you will start ignoring her. Eventually she will wake up a little bit later and then dump you.
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Mizzoufan26  Georgia Fan Honolulu, HI Member since Sep 2012 2250 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/2/13 at 8:34 pm to lsunurse)
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Just repeatedly tell her she has something on her face. She'll go look in the mirror and realize it's hair. She'll be really embarrassed but at least she'll think you just thought she had something on her face. I second this. You should be able to be direct with your SO, esp if they are your spouse.
No joke, I hate when people tread lightly with this shite. I love my wife, but what the frick is she gonna leave me? Who cares, there are 3.5 billion other women out there that I never hooked up with. To quote a wise woman, "my give a damn is busted." So far have told her if she poops during childbirth, divorce. If she gets fat, divorce. There was one other divorceable offense, can't remember it though.
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JabarkusRussell Member since Jul 2009 6467 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/3/13 at 3:28 pm to beaverfever)
Black arm hair too. 
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Dandy Lion  Iowa State Fan Constantinopla Member since Feb 2010 18571 posts
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Roy Rodgers McFreely
Maybe you and your SO ought share some quality time in front of the mirror with a razor. Make sure your shaving cream is of her choice.
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JLSIX  New Orleans Saints Fan New Orleans, LA Member since Apr 2010 15743 posts

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Duct tape in hand, fall on her face
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Pumpkins  LSU Fan Baton Rouge Member since Oct 2010 11448 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/3/13 at 3:39 pm to Hugo Stiglitz)
I see someone bumped this and before I was asked why it's a bad idea to be open about it. Openness about issues in relationships is good, but this isnt about a normal issue that can be easily brought up. This is nitpicking about a physical flaw. If you really can't stand it, you need to get someone else to do it. For me it's a complete deal breaker if a guy points out physical imperfections. In my experience, about half of guys do that, and half of them don't. I'd rather have one who just tells me I'm pretty.
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JLSIX  New Orleans Saints Fan New Orleans, LA Member since Apr 2010 15743 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/3/13 at 3:40 pm to Pumpkins)
"You have a beautiful mustache" - Pumpkins' boyfriend
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Pumpkins  LSU Fan Baton Rouge Member since Oct 2010 11448 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/3/13 at 3:53 pm to JLSIX)
You should all just date girls who take the initiative to take care of themselves. Problem solved.
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slim thug Member since Apr 2010 8004 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/3/13 at 3:54 pm to Pumpkins)
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For me it's a complete deal breaker if a guy points out physical imperfections.
is it really a physical imperfection? its just some hair that can be shaved little dramatic IMO
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CajunRevolution  LSU Fan Member since Apr 2009 28816 posts

| re: Telling a female SO about facial hair? (Posted on 2/3/13 at 3:56 pm to Pumpkins)
It tells me more about the woman than anything else. If she has a stache and doesn't notice it...she got to go. Ain't no way I'm dating a woman who neglects something like that. If she got a stache...you know those pits are hairy and that vag is bushy.
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