re: So Mr Bs is out for rehearsal dinner. Why the high minimums? Any ideas?

The site indicates that prices include tax and a 20% gratuity. On the site, it looks like they have minimums for 10 people and above depending on the room selection or, at least, that's how I read it.

Does that price also include the $8 per person validated parking? You said y'all were walking, so I assume it doesn't.

Do you only have one hour of cocktails for the reception? If so, that could make a difference right there.

I think I'd call them and find out what you can do to work it down a bit if that's what you want. You're pretty close to your high in your "reasonable" range. Technically, you could make a reservation downstairs for 22 people, order the table d'hote menu at $37.95 per person, plus liquor, tax and gratiuty and be somewhat under, probably. I'd bet they put a party that large away from the crowd or in the bar area, perhaps. You could call to find out about a reservation for that size and where they would put you etc... and just see what you get.