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deltaland 
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Lot of truth in the OP. I bookmarked to have as a reminder for when I get off track... After me an my ex broke up months ago, I had no problem getting women due to the fact I was my normal self and didn't think much about it. Here in the past month, I've come to miss having one steady girl but having trouble keeping one around very long which has hurt my usually high confidence.
That read just awoke my mind to what I was doing wrong, basically I miss having a girlfriend and am trying to rush shite with the wrong girls. Gotta relax and slow down, and one will come along. Until then, be myself and have fun and be confident.
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DrunkTigerBaiter 
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 8:12 pm to deltaland)
i agree with you. you have to wait for her. a gf broke up with me and i though i would find someone immediately since i was at lsu. i didn't. i had a few rebounds but never found another girlfriend until a year after i graduated. just patient. she will come.
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lsu480 
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 8:12 pm to Azazello)
If it wasn't for girls with daddy issues I would still be a virgin.
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Alatgr 
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 8:20 pm to Azazello)
:slowclap:
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deltaland
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I realize that... Same happened to me. We broke up in July an in the span of 3 weeks I think I fricked 5 or 6 new girls. Just simply was enjoying newfound freedom and being carefree and fun. Wanted no relationship even though a couple of those girls wanted one with me.. I was able to use them for a couple months for sex then finally told them we would never be anything.
Found a couple new frick buddies, and met a couple nice girls I'd thought I'd date but they fell through after a few weeks.
Now I'm back to square one and been trying to figure out what's wrong for the past week, wondering why they didn't want to be with me after they were so interested at first. That article helped a ton, instead of maintaining my usual confidence that they liked in the first place, I fell into the "worrying they would leave" thing once I became more interested in a relationship and most likely that showed lack of confidence or perhaps a hint of desperation.
Not my usual personality, I'm thinking it is just from losing my ex and not completely regaining my confidence in a relationship. I'm thinking that needs to be put on the back burner and I'll go back to having fun until one comes along and I'll be ready then.
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deltaland
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 8:30 pm to lsu480)
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If it wasn't for girls with daddy issues I would of avoided the worst 9 months of my life with a psycho bitch
She got pregnant off a one night deal... swore up and down it was mine cause she had only been with me in that timespan. We ended up dating for awhile, broke up, dated again, etc.
Turned out she was a little slut, and it wasn't even mine. The day I found that out I told her to hit the road, and haven't looked back. Been almost 2 years and haven't heard much from her
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tjohn deaux
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 8:42 pm to Azazello)
wisdom at it's finest. the guy who wrote this has clearly struggled through some screwed up relationships. great stuff 
PS: TL:DR; bitches be crazy, just PIIHB and GTFO, lol
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Escobar600
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 8:42 pm to deltaland)
Number 2 is the most important in my experience. Learn about her relationship with her father. If they have problems, you will have quite the mountain to climb to make it work, no matter what you do.
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Jet12
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:08 pm to tjohn deaux)
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PS: TL:DR; bitches be crazy, just PIIHB and GTFO, lol
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tjohn deaux
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:10 pm to Jet12)
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15sammy34 
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:33 pm to tjohn deaux)
That was a good read. I think every guy will find a girl that they think is "different" at some point. Dumbasses.
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deltaland
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:35 pm to 15sammy34)
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I think every guy will find a girl that they think is "different" at some point.
I tend to think they are all scandalous and psycho in their own special way. And they all have a slut side, it just takes a different approach with each one to get it out of them. Some easier than others.
I will assume this until one proves me otherwise.
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15sammy34
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:41 pm to deltaland)
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And they all have a slut side, it just takes a different approach with each one to get it out of them
Truth. And they all crave male attention. What a lot of people don't realize is that a girl's relationship with her dad doesn't have to be abusive for her to still have daddy issues. Often the dad is just gone a lot, so the girl will do whatever she can to find a guy that will be with her ALL the time. And they will do ANYTHING.
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deltaland
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:45 pm to 15sammy34)
Yea those are usually the clingy ones.
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Bayouadrink
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:46 pm to deltaland)
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15sammy34
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:48 pm to deltaland)
Yes, yes they are. 
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Neako27blitzz
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:51 pm to Azazello)
i am extremely familiar with Item #2. It's funny though bc while my ex hated her father, I was and remain very close with him.
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GregMaddux
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:54 pm to Azazello)
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Treat each woman, no matter who she is, as if she is your best friend's girl. Give her respect, even if you don't choose to engage her in a meaningful way. Understand that she is a daughter, a sister and someone's baby and if she's not good enough to be kind to, then leave her alone.
frick I wish everyone did this. It would make the dating world so much fricking easier and more efficient.
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deltaland
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:54 pm to 15sammy34)
Had one that was so clingy, when I got sick of her acting that way and knew she'd never change and broke up with her, she started sending me nude pics on my phone hoping I'd miss her body and take her back.. when that didn't work she started threatening to kill herself. That didn't work either. She is fine now with a new BF, I'm happy for her.
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lsu480
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| re: How to Deal with Women (Posted on 12/25/11 at 9:55 pm to deltaland)
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She got pregnant off a one night deal... swore up and down it was mine cause she had only been with me in that timespan. We ended up dating for awhile, broke up, dated again, etc.
Turned out she was a little slut, and it wasn't even mine. The day I found that out I told her to hit the road, and haven't looked back. Been almost 2 years and haven't heard much from her
Damn that sucks.....sorry dude! 
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