re: Have you seen a loved one in a state that crushed you…

Yep, going through this right now. My dad lives in West Virginia and just recently had to move to a nursing home due to his dementia. On top of that right now he's in the hospital with Covid that he caught in there. I'm 7 hours away, so I don't get back too often, mainly holidays or long weekends here and there. But seeing him in there in his condition was really tough.