re: Divorce Experience

1.) child development consultations. You need to do this in the least damaging way possible. Its not a one shot, you will need to continuously be looking around the corner for threats to their well being.

2.) Family law varies by parish/county. If you are somewhere that starts custody at 50/50 then count your blessings, but you are still screwed.

3.) You are screwed BC of the income delta. Its a standard normalization calculation for child support. That calc gets weighted further based on custody ratio.

4.) Does she have work credentials that go unused? If so, there is a thing called "failure to earn potential" or something of the sort. Attorneys have a book with credentials and what they should earn. That can go into the normalization calculation.

4.) Don't divorce if you can help it. You signed a contract with your child(ren) upon conception. Divorce is parents taking the cross off of their shoulders and placing it on their kids.

"Children are resilient" is a trashy phrase that selfish ppl say to justify doing selfish things.

I dont know your scenario so am just speaking in generalities. Just dont minimize the impact it has on children.