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re: Dads, did you cry or get emotional when your son moved out the house?

Posted on 10/30/22 at 12:13 pm to
Posted by Pettifogger
Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone
Member since Feb 2012
79325 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 12:13 pm to
I probably will at least a little.

Rocking a toddler to sleep right now. Sometimes I tear up just thinking about what a good little guy he is. My wife knows to just pretend she didn’t see it.
Posted by VolunGator
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2020
1157 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 12:14 pm to
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Some people love their kids. Novel concept, I know


"Don't blink"

LINK

Suffice to say, yes I cried when walking out of my son's dorm for the first time.
Posted by VolunGator
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2020
1157 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 12:18 pm to
Everyday ends with the promise of a better tomorrow. Reach out to me. I'll help
Posted by nealnan8
Atlanta
Member since Oct 2016
1686 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 12:23 pm to
No crying at all, I was proud of him wanting to get his own place. It is one step in the path of manhood and responsibility.
Posted by Bigfishchoupique
Member since Jul 2017
8471 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 1:14 pm to
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Suffice to say, yes I cried when walking out of my son's dorm for the first time.


I cried at the end of the aisle when we shook hands for his wedding.

Was beaming and so proud of the man I had raised. People in the crowd commented afterward that they could see how proud of him I was.

I just can’t tolerate not being civil and logical in an argument. We can’t work anymore together.

Want to try and see my grandson again. His other grandparents are able bring him on trips and travel. I’m not too good at that.
I want to teach him about tools and boats and fishing. Stuff like that.

A fun day for them is to take an all day drive to go eat at a new restaurant. . Not me. I don’t fit in.

That’s it no more whining from me. I just wish we could have a logical conversation.
This post was edited on 10/30/22 at 1:18 pm
Posted by cypresstiger
The South
Member since Aug 2008
10639 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 1:34 pm to
I teared up
But no blubbering
Posted by Ignatius Reilly
NOLA
Member since Nov 2015
148 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 1:49 pm to
Oldest pulled out of the driveway heading to college a little over 11 years ago. Had a hard lump in my throat for a couple minutes after watching him drive away. I remember it well. My emotions were a mixture of being very proud of him, happy for him along with the weight of not being able to protect him.
Posted by VolunGator
Franklin, TN
Member since Jan 2020
1157 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 2:49 pm to
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Want to try and see my grandson again. His other grandparents are able bring him on trips and travel. I’m not too good at that.
I want to teach him about tools and boats and fishing. Stuff like that.

A fun day for them is to take an all day drive to go eat at a new restaurant. . Not me. I don’t fit in


Search for middle ground.
Posted by greenbean
USAF Retired
Member since Feb 2019
4665 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 2:57 pm to
No, love my kids dearly but didn't cry when they left home. Now had they been conscripted into the Russian Military, they may have been a different story. Both went to college within two hours, so not like they are in China. One even went into the Air Nationa Guard (and has deployed twice and been around the world several times, including Iraq, Afghanistan, and Africa).
Posted by ob1pimpbobi
College Station
Member since Jul 2022
2637 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 3:01 pm to

Son is 16 and we will do some school visits in the spring. I know I will be emotional with him leaving, but it is because I am happy for him to be starting a new chapter in his life. I know he is ready for this and feel I have raised him well and ready. It will be tears of happiness for him.
Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
61868 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 3:04 pm to
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Dads, did you cry or get emotional when your son moved out the house?
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I lost my 30 year old daughter 5 years ago. Surprise heart attack. About the same time, my son was moving out and getting his own apartment. He was 20. He was moving in with his girlfriend who he is now married to and has a 5 month old daughter. I am not a emotional person in general but that was a tough time for me and my wife. I worried about him more than I ever thought I would and I still do to this day.

I was a only child and I always felt like my parents were just strong because they let me run free as a kid (it was the times) and was very supportive when I moved out and went to college. I Just didnt know what was happening behind the scenes


Posted by GruntbyAssociation
Member since Jul 2013
3862 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 3:20 pm to
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Wtf is godbrother?


Or a nephew in-law.
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
31929 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:16 pm to
Our twins are seniors and one dreading that time. They are golden hearted young men and we all spend alot of quality time together.

If they are at aTm it’s 50min……TxTech is 8.5hrs away. Fingers crossed they are Aggies.

Just like someone said, it sure as hell is a mortality thing.
Posted by tankyank13
NOLA
Member since Nov 2012
7725 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:25 pm to
I tear up just looking at older photos of my two girls. 9 & 4

I’m a pussy when it comes to my babies growing up.
This post was edited on 10/30/22 at 5:25 pm
Posted by USMCguy121
Northshore
Member since Aug 2021
6332 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 5:27 pm to
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I'll buy him an old junker car and we can restore her together. We'll stay up late fixing her up, just me and my boy. Then one day, when we're all finished, Bobby will get in that car and he'll drive away. And then I can die a happy man.


Posted by TheFonz
Somewhere in Louisiana
Member since Jul 2016
20472 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 6:09 pm to
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I took that as a sign.


It’s not that I was glad that he moved out. He was 18 and ready to tackle the big, bad world and I am proud of him. He had his own apartment, held down a job, and was going to school. It was a lot on his plate but he wanted to do it. I was married and out of the house at 19, so it would have been a little hypocritical of me to try to keep him tied at home. The sooner you learn about the real world the better chance you have to survive in it. Make the mistakes and learn the lessons while you’re young.
Posted by WhiteMandingo
Member since Jan 2016
5642 posts
Posted on 10/30/22 at 8:09 pm to
Knowing it's you and the miserable hag.
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