Democrats vs Republicans... who are the real fools?

We read about Democrat controlled big city crime and every time people respond with "they voted for the leaders".
That is true but are we conservatives any different?
Republicans caved on the debt ceiling, of all the "investigations" into Biden, Hunter, and the FBI not turning over evidence, etc.
Nothing is done. Nothing is different. Democrats and Republicans have thing in common, our tax dollars are collected and wasted to fund a federal government that cares nothing about either of us.