Perhaps if people like you would quit operating on ignorant assumptions we wouldn't be in this situation. And nobody would have to die.
So if radicals don't get what they want people have to die? Causing havoc amongst targeted citizens to send a message? They can't outmatch trained soldiers so they go after soft targets which are innocent citizens. Where as the Government of the targeted citizens do what they can to defend them by targeting the aggressors who hide amongst their innocent people who shelter them or allow them to stay out of fear. Thus making their innocent people part of the problem. So it pretty much comes down to this it's either them or you.
They had their chance for talks and negotiations, they made their decision that people had to die instead of talking. They gain land and farming equipment which instead of using farm equipment they used the land to launch rockets from. So the only legitimate reason for people having to die is when they decide that your people have to die instead of being civil.