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Question about a woman being a stage 5 clinger

Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:44 pm
Posted by indytiger
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Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:44 pm
So I have this friend who hooked up with a female. He explicitly expressed to her that he was not looking for a relationship or anything of the kind, and at most, all they would be is friends with benefits.

She responded that she wanted to be fwb's too. Her caveat is that if my friend were to ever hook up with any other woman, he had to tell her about it.

Is this normal behavior, or is she a stage 5 clinger in hiding?
Posted by Darla Hood
Near that place by that other place
Member since Aug 2012
13951 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:47 pm to
She ain't even hiding it.
Posted by Turbeauxdog
Member since Aug 2004
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Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:47 pm to
She may just not want another woman's essence all up in hers.
Posted by chryso
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2008
11881 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:48 pm to
Please explain the 5 stages.
Posted by Saints72
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2012
473 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:48 pm to
The sooner you come out to your folks the better, no use in hiding any longer ..
Posted by yankeeundercover
Buffalo, NY
Member since Jan 2010
36373 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:48 pm to
Need a pic of said "clinger" for accurate advice/suggestions.

Until then, OT will be of no help.
Posted by DanW1
Member since Jan 2013
1103 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:49 pm to
Sounds like she wants to be a bffwb.. Easy way to find out though, all "he's" got to do is tell her "he" bedded another lady and see what she does.

Not really another choice if they've already hooked up, unless "he" just sticks with her.




ETA some strategically placed apostrophes to signify your "friend"
This post was edited on 4/2/15 at 5:52 pm
Posted by CaptainPanic
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:49 pm to
Agree to her terms and then lie.

/thread
Posted by iAmBatman
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Member since Mar 2011
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Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:51 pm to
quote:

Agree to her terms and then lie.

/thread


This
Posted by Green Chili Tiger
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Member since Jul 2009
47615 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:52 pm to
quote:

Her caveat is that if my friend were to ever hook up with any other woman, he had to tell her about it.


If she wants a detailed description she could just be a cuckquean.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:54 pm to
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Agree to her terms and then lie.

/thread


Posted by indytiger
baton rouge/indy
Member since Oct 2004
9834 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:55 pm to
quote:

Agree to her terms and then lie.

/thread


This was my friend's plan. Glad he has yall's backing.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63395 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 5:59 pm to
Why does your friend want to get stabbed up?
Posted by drewnbrla
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Member since Mar 2011
7839 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 6:01 pm to
Did he tell her she had to do the same? If so, what was her response?

Either way, FWB are only frick buddies, nothing more. What he does on the side is none of her business unless he's not wrapping it up.
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 6:05 pm to
quote:

Is this normal behavior, or is she a stage 5 clinger in hiding?


I think its not abnormal. My wife has a friend (she is not my friend, I can't stand her) that would require this from her FWB. She just wanted to know what was going on, and didn't care but also didnt want to be the guys last option.

Seems reasonable to me.

Of course sometimes these woman want FWB to become relationships, this might be her attempt.
Posted by Rouge
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Posted on 4/2/15 at 6:10 pm to
#valtrex
Posted by lsufan_26
Member since Feb 2004
12559 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 6:14 pm to
quote:

So I have this friend who hooked up with a female.

CSB
Posted by tke857
Member since Jan 2012
12195 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 7:49 pm to
So you want to be frick buddies no relationship but you have to tell her if you hook up with someone else? Yeahhhh...... Sirens going off
Posted by LSUwag
Florida man
Member since Jan 2007
17319 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 7:52 pm to
quote:

Agree to her terms and then lie.


Exactly
Posted by windshieldman
Member since Nov 2012
12818 posts
Posted on 4/2/15 at 7:57 pm to
What the hell does FWB mean?

Eta: friends with benefits, thank you urban dictionary
This post was edited on 4/2/15 at 8:29 pm
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