re: Would you ever be in a serious relationship with someone you had a threesome

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Would you ever be in a serious relationship with someone you had a threesome with?

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Sure.

So you don't think Paige's future hubby is going to be a miserable wreck with constant hauntings of a wife whoring around town all day and night?

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Paige, the way you asked Rob made you sound kinda desperate. Also, you sounded like you were used to guys just using you for sex. In the future, when asking about a relationship developing, don't throw the sex part in there. Seriously, guys with any brains will see this. I hope you can snag another doctor, Rob is gone.

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All of this.

I'm sorry, Paige :( His response was not positive in my interpretation.

There is nothing wrong with having sex with someone before it turns into a relationship, but there is a way to do it that shows you still respect yourself and that you aren't going to be strung along. There is nothing at all wrong with standing your ground and being honest about how you feel and what you expect from him. It isn't clingy or desperate, and if a man thinks it is, he isn't worth your time anyway.

The way you asked him, along with your response, wasn't standing your ground. You resigned to his lack of interest in being in a relationship, and showed that you're just going to keep holding out hope.

If he won't be with you now, he won't be with you ever. Sure, there are exceptions to this rule.. but in general, it is true. Very few things in life are worthy of passing on someone you are truly interested in being with.

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I noticed you didn't say marry

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yeh well i was talking about staying an extra 6 mos to a year...not a lifetime

paige might be enough of a freak to put up with for a year

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If he won't be with you now, he won't be with you ever. Sure, there are exceptions to this rule.. but in general, it is true. Very few things in life are worthy of passing on someone you are truly interested in being with.

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They have hung out 2 times, I think its too early to say that if he won't be with her now he won't ever be with her.

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They have hung out 2 times, I think its too early to say that if he won't be with her now he won't ever be with her.

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Wait what?

She has been talking about this dude for weeks it feels like.

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Yeah, wtf. Theyve hung out twice? Cling much?

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How the hell was I supposed to know that? I generally avoid hearing about you people's real life issues. The screenshot when I clicked on the thread intrigued me.

So what's the deal? She has only met this guy twice? They doing long distance chatting or something?
What is the relationship with the title of this thread? Did she ask him for a threesome?

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Wait what? She has been talking about this dude for weeks it feels like.

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Paige lives life at Warp 8 - we should all be so lucky.

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LouisianaLady

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Hey before you go, can you tell me what all that really means?

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didn't she say something about marrying him in that thread...if so she is crazy

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I did see that. "I'm going to marry him. He doesn't know that yet."

I don't know. Everyone is different.

All I can say is his response in the screen shot isn't the most favorable. For her sake, I hope I am wrong :) I don't dislike Paige.

I guess I just find that when someone isn't as enthusiastic as yourself about it, they aren't interested. I could be wrong.