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Have you ever wanted to beat the crap out of your best friend?
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:40 pm
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:40 pm
Yep, that's where I'm at right now. I would beat the living shite out of him right now if I could.
Pissed off, hurt, upset, damn near every emotion you can experience is what I'm feeling right now. I don't even know if I'll hit submit when I'm done typing this, but sometimes you have to get it out.
I stood in this assholes wedding exactly 2 months ago and couldn't have been more happy for him. Things were really on an upswing for him. He has a beautiful wife he loves dearly. He had gotten a new job that he was really enjoying too. He constantly was texting me telling me about something from work.
I get up this morning and check facebook real quick and see his wife posted a link to his obituary. I'm immediately shocked. WTF happened and why haven't I gotten a call. I read the obituary and find out this happened Thursday. He had Cystic Fibrosis, which the life expectancy is only around 32 years. He was 28.
I figured it was that, or he wrapped the Mustang 5.0 he just bought around a tree.
Usually when he gets sick or anything, he calls me. He text me from work Wednesday and died Thursday, so that tells me it couldn't have been CF. It doesn't take people down that fast.
I finally got in touch with some other friends and they all knew, but no one thought to call me. Everyone assumed I already knew for some reason. Come to find out, the a-hole took his own life and his wife found him.
I went from being very upset to extremely pissed off about as fast as humanly possible. How could anyone be so selfish? Why the frick didn't he call me if things were that bad?
He did some things that struck me odd the last year, I event talked to him about it. I never thought he would take anything this far. When the story on Robin Williams came out, you could see it struck him funny. He kept wanting to talk about that. He wasn't happy at his job so he just up and quit. He refused to be unhappy and he said so.
I had some of the best times of my life with this guy. Last night my fiance and I were talking and I told her I was going to call him this week to ask him to be in my wedding. Guess now I'll have a fricking cardboard cutout of him.
Pissed off, hurt, upset, damn near every emotion you can experience is what I'm feeling right now. I don't even know if I'll hit submit when I'm done typing this, but sometimes you have to get it out.
I stood in this assholes wedding exactly 2 months ago and couldn't have been more happy for him. Things were really on an upswing for him. He has a beautiful wife he loves dearly. He had gotten a new job that he was really enjoying too. He constantly was texting me telling me about something from work.
I get up this morning and check facebook real quick and see his wife posted a link to his obituary. I'm immediately shocked. WTF happened and why haven't I gotten a call. I read the obituary and find out this happened Thursday. He had Cystic Fibrosis, which the life expectancy is only around 32 years. He was 28.
I figured it was that, or he wrapped the Mustang 5.0 he just bought around a tree.
Usually when he gets sick or anything, he calls me. He text me from work Wednesday and died Thursday, so that tells me it couldn't have been CF. It doesn't take people down that fast.
I finally got in touch with some other friends and they all knew, but no one thought to call me. Everyone assumed I already knew for some reason. Come to find out, the a-hole took his own life and his wife found him.
I went from being very upset to extremely pissed off about as fast as humanly possible. How could anyone be so selfish? Why the frick didn't he call me if things were that bad?
He did some things that struck me odd the last year, I event talked to him about it. I never thought he would take anything this far. When the story on Robin Williams came out, you could see it struck him funny. He kept wanting to talk about that. He wasn't happy at his job so he just up and quit. He refused to be unhappy and he said so.
I had some of the best times of my life with this guy. Last night my fiance and I were talking and I told her I was going to call him this week to ask him to be in my wedding. Guess now I'll have a fricking cardboard cutout of him.
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Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:41 pm to Austin Cajun
quote:
Yep, that's where I'm at right now. I would beat the living shite out of him right now if I could.
Pissed off, hurt, upset, damn near every emotion you can experience is what I'm feeling right now. I don't even know if I'll hit submit when I'm done typing this, but sometimes you have to get it out.
I stood in this assholes wedding exactly 2 months ago and couldn't have been more happy for him. Things were really on an upswing for him. He has a beautiful wife he loves dearly. He had gotten a new job that he was really enjoying too. He constantly was texting me telling me about something from work.
I get up this morning and check facebook real quick and see his wife posted a link to his obituary. I'm immediately shocked. WTF happened and why haven't I gotten a call. I read the obituary and find out this happened Thursday. He had Cystic Fibrosis, which the life expectancy is only around 32 years. He was 28.
I figured it was that, or he wrapped the Mustang 5.0 he just bought around a tree.
Usually when he gets sick or anything, he calls me. He text me from work Wednesday and died Thursday, so that tells me it couldn't have been CF. It doesn't take people down that fast.
I finally got in touch with some other friends and they all knew, but no one thought to call me. Everyone assumed I already knew for some reason. Come to find out, the a-hole took his own life and his wife found him.
I went from being very upset to extremely pissed off about as fast as humanly possible. How could anyone be so selfish? Why the frick didn't he call me if things were that bad?
He did some things that struck me odd the last year, I event talked to him about it. I never thought he would take anything this far. When the story on Robin Williams came out, you could see it struck him funny. He kept wanting to talk about that. He wasn't happy at his job so he just up and quit. He refused to be unhappy and he said so.
I had some of the best times of my life with this guy. Last night my fiance and I were talking and I told her I was going to call him this week to ask him to be in my wedding. Guess now I'll have a fricking cardboard cutout of him.
just in case
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:41 pm to Austin Cajun
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Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:43 pm to Austin Cajun
Damn man that's rough
Sorry to hear this
You will be in my thoughts and prayers
Sorry to hear this
You will be in my thoughts and prayers
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:44 pm to Austin Cajun
quote:
How could anyone be so selfish?
That's the million dollar question; Robin Williams wife would like to know this too.
quote:
Why the frick didn't he call me if things were that bad?
Apparently it was something he didn't want you to know about
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:44 pm to Austin Cajun
You don't sound like a cocksucker piece of shite at all.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:45 pm to Austin Cajun
You listening to the fray?
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:45 pm to Austin Cajun
you sound pretty selfish.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:46 pm to Austin Cajun
It's natural to be angry and upset
But if someone's suicidal, selfishness doesn't enter into it. They are not acting rationally. Asking them to take things like selfishness into account is a lost cause. The best you can do is stop them from harming themselves, and get them help when the immediate crisis passes. And sometimes you can't do that, especially if they're keeping their troubles to themselves.
Mourn for him, and remember him for the good friend he was. Be angry at times, but don't let it ruin your memory of him.
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How could anyone be so selfish?
But if someone's suicidal, selfishness doesn't enter into it. They are not acting rationally. Asking them to take things like selfishness into account is a lost cause. The best you can do is stop them from harming themselves, and get them help when the immediate crisis passes. And sometimes you can't do that, especially if they're keeping their troubles to themselves.
Mourn for him, and remember him for the good friend he was. Be angry at times, but don't let it ruin your memory of him.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:46 pm to Walt OReilly
Damn man I am sorry for your loss. I have been in a similar situation.
Really sucks you had to find out on facebook and that you were called. That is extra rough.
Really sucks you had to find out on facebook and that you were called. That is extra rough.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:46 pm to Austin Cajun
damn man that is terrible
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:47 pm to Austin Cajun
Damn, that's tough to hear.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:47 pm to Wtodd
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Apparently it was something he didn't want you to know about
people that are good at suicide usually just do it, usually the less successful ones cry out for help with the threat, exceptions of course
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:52 pm to Austin Cajun
It sounds selfish to take your own life. However depression is a terrible thing that doesn't let people think rationally.
Don't beat yourself up and try not to be too mad at him. He was obviously not in his right mind when he took his own life.
Don't beat yourself up and try not to be too mad at him. He was obviously not in his right mind when he took his own life.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 12:56 pm to Austin Cajun
The pain of losing your best friend will never go away. Trust me on this.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 1:02 pm to Austin Cajun
i'm terribly sorry for your loss.but it was his free will choice to do it,and it may sound kind of twisted,but you should respect his descision and be there for his wife/family. 
Posted on 1/26/15 at 1:04 pm to Austin Cajun
Anger is normal.
Some people don't want help. We are all going to die, some people just don't have the patience to wait another 50 years.
Life is different to everyone. Things like getting married, etc sometimes people hope that will change things. But sometimes nothing helps.
It's selfish to only those left behind, and frustrating because you feel you were denied the opportunity to help. Or even say goodbye.
Some people don't want help. We are all going to die, some people just don't have the patience to wait another 50 years.
Life is different to everyone. Things like getting married, etc sometimes people hope that will change things. But sometimes nothing helps.
It's selfish to only those left behind, and frustrating because you feel you were denied the opportunity to help. Or even say goodbye.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 1:06 pm to Austin Cajun
Sorry, dude. I really didn't read the OP. My deepest sympathies.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 1:08 pm to Austin Cajun
Don't be mad at him, you have no idea what he was going through or what kind of pain he was in at the time.
Posted on 1/26/15 at 1:08 pm to Austin Cajun
quote:
f your best friend?
quote:
stood in this assholes wedding exactly 2 months
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get up this morning and check facebook real quick and see his wife posted a link to his obituary. I'm immediately shocked. WTF happened and why haven't I gotten a call. I read the obituary and find out this happened Thursday. He had Cystic Fibrosis, which the life expectancy is only around 32 years. He was 28.
I guess yall werent as close you thought you were
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