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re: I need some honest relationship advice
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:08 pm to BugaPainTrain7
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:08 pm to BugaPainTrain7
Piihb
Hookers and blow
Hookers and blow
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Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:15 pm to BugaPainTrain7
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So don't wait on her and do what I want...
Well, yeah.
And, so WHAT, if you are a "backup plan" this weekend or this week or this month or this YEAR? Let her do her own thing. She's not hurting anything.
Seems like you are in love with her and you want to possess her now. Nothing wrong with having feelings for her, but, you have got to fix the part about wanting to possess her NOW.
Why can't you look at things more objectively? Why can't you be more DE-tached ? You are acting like you two are attached at the hip or something.
Give that fillie freedom from your demands. Let her see other guys. Once she gets married, all that ends.
You two care about each other. That's not going to go away unless you push and pressure her into giving up her freedom.
The more you try to possess her the more she's going to run from you.
She's not going anywhere. She'll be on Earth for years, probably. So will you.
This post was edited on 11/25/14 at 10:18 pm
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:16 pm to BugaPainTrain7
If she really means that much to you then try to meet her in the middle. Honestly, work with her.
Made the mistake myself in January, dumb fricking mistake.
Made the mistake myself in January, dumb fricking mistake.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:17 pm to Champagne
Well damn...yeah I guess your right...I'll just leave her alone and she will be back...bc she loves me and if she doesn't then she wasn't the one for me...that'll be tough to swallow at first but I don't think it will happen so I'll be able to handle this
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:18 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
What mistake did you make?
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:20 pm to BugaPainTrain7
You need to tell her she needs to decide. Is she scared of something? Give her confidence. Give her like a week to think about it and see what she does. If she says no or doesn't respond, move on.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:23 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
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Honestly, work with her.
I don't know what this means.
But, back to the OP:
Don't try to "work" with her in the sense of trying to negotiate with her or talk things out.
IT'S BEYOND THAT.
She wants her freedom and let her have it. Don't bother her or try to make her feel bad.
So what if she dates other dudes?
Give her unconditional freedom. She's young. She need to experience that before she becomes a Wife and a Mother.
Personally, I only date whores and sluts because I'm lousy husband material, but, I think you might have a "good girl" who wants and deserves freedom and fun for a while while she's young and single.
This post was edited on 11/25/14 at 10:25 pm
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:28 pm to BugaPainTrain7
Here's some - stop being a poof and go smash some new puss.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:38 pm to BugaPainTrain7
I dumped the girl of my dreams. Not for the same reasons but, if you're that certain on the fact you want to be with ole girl for longer, not saying that y'all have to be together right at this moment but don't also disrespect her. I think that what people are saying about go have fun are spot on. You're in college, go live it. But y'all may also need to draw some boundaries in the sand.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:39 pm to geauxtigers87
A couple years from now, you'll ask her to marry you, she'll accept, then you'll back out of the deal. You'll come back here asking for advice on how to let her down.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:41 pm to Tigerwaffe
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You'll come back here asking for advice on how to let her down.
That's easy! Just tell her "look I only date whores and sluts because I'm lousy husband material. You deserve a good husband, not me."
It's the "it's not you, it's me" thing is disguise.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:42 pm to Champagne
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Personally, I only date whores and sluts because I'm lousy husband material, but, I think you might have a "good girl" who wants and deserves freedom and fun for a while while she's young and single.
This
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:45 pm to TigerFanInSouthland
Yeah you done messed up...she's the girl of my dreams I just don't want to lose her and she doesn't want to lose me but she wants to have fun
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:47 pm to BugaPainTrain7
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lay down the law on the bitch and tell her what's up
No you're not
How do we all know? You started this thread.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:47 pm to BugaPainTrain7
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Yeah you done messed up...she's the girl of my dreams I just don't want to lose her and she doesn't want to lose me but she wants to have fun
You're on her back burner.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:50 pm to BugaPainTrain7
Probably been said by now, but run.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:53 pm to BugaPainTrain7
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but she wants to have fun
WTF?
This post was edited on 11/25/14 at 10:55 pm
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:54 pm to BugaPainTrain7
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she doesn't want to lose me but she wants to have fun
So, let her have fun and don't make her feel guilty about it.
What are you afraid of? You seem afraid. Don't be afraid of what might happen if you don't possess her now. That's not manly.
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:57 pm to Champagne
I don't want to lose her...I never said I want her now I'm not going to force her into something she doesn't want she said that we won't get back together until junior year of college....I don't like that idea but frick what can I do
This post was edited on 11/25/14 at 10:58 pm
Posted on 11/25/14 at 10:57 pm to BugaPainTrain7
I'd just chill out and not worry about it. She's probably not going anywhere soon.
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