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Do you blame the death of a loved one on someone or something?

Posted on 11/23/14 at 9:57 pm
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16120 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 9:57 pm
I talked with a dude whose daughter died of cirrhosis of the liver. She was 400 lbs. The way he sees it is was her jobs fault for denying her disability and the hospital's fault for not wanting to treat her without insurance. It would suck to blame your own daughter for getting to 400 lbs. It makes more sense to blame the government and big business.
Posted by ell_13
Member since Apr 2013
85067 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 9:58 pm to
quote:

hospital's fault for not wanting to treat her without insurance.
They would have treated her if he or she had enough money
Posted by dodgeviper
Bunkie
Member since Nov 2014
629 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 9:59 pm to
He sounds like a Godless communist who hates America and everything she stands for.


I usually blame God.
Posted by soccerfüt
Location: A Series of Tubes
Member since May 2013
65751 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 9:59 pm to
Must have been a Caesarean Delivery.

Darwinian dynamic?
Posted by Indfanfromcol
LSU
Member since Jan 2011
14733 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:00 pm to
quote:

Do you blame the death of a loved one on someone or something?



Yes, I blame the person who shot my friend.
Posted by tigerbutt
Deep South
Member since Jun 2006
24590 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:00 pm to
yeah, cigarettes
Posted by Jreily85
Member since Nov 2014
590 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:02 pm to
Not to sound insensitive, but did her job, the hospital, the government, or big business cause her to get to 400lbs?

How exactly did her job "deny her disability"?

I may have misunderstood your post, and if i did, then I apologize.
Posted by biglego
Ask your mom where I been
Member since Nov 2007
76376 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:06 pm to
He's in pain from burying his daughter and in denial about the cause. I wouldn't read too much into it
Posted by Superior Pariah
Member since Jun 2009
8457 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:11 pm to
It's usually God's fault
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16120 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:17 pm to
She had a State job. She was denied disability and was told to quit or get fired. She chose to quit but appealed the disability ruling. She was without insurance and couldn't get treatment for her obesity. The hospital never spent the necessary time to properly diagnose her condition due to a lack of coverage. He reasons the State wronged her by denying her disability and the hospital was profit driven for not spending the necessary time to find out what was wrong with her.
This post was edited on 11/23/14 at 10:19 pm
Posted by LSUSoulja08
Member since Oct 2007
16969 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:20 pm to
anger is a part of the grieving process. This stage is often manifested in blaming something/someone for the death of the person.

totally normal. He will move past it and move on.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124497 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:21 pm to
No
Posted by rebeloke
Member since Nov 2012
16120 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:25 pm to
You don't blame anyone or don't have anyone to speak of that you've lost?
Posted by anc
Member since Nov 2012
18095 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:40 pm to
My mother in law blames the hospital for her 98 year old father dying.

Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 10:40 pm to
Yes
I blame the incompetent staff at Ferriday hospital for my mom's death
Posted by JG77056
Vegas baby, Vegas
Member since Sep 2010
12064 posts
Posted on 11/23/14 at 11:16 pm to
For a long time I blamed myself for the death of a friend. I didn't want to play golf early in the morning b/c it was too cold so he caught an earlier flight. Flight never made it.
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